LOL, I never said change who you are. Just take it out of the profile. Then if some girl messages you who is bigger than what you want you can be nice and turn her down. But the way it is now, I doubt very seriously if anyone will respond to a profile saying you don't like fat women. Maybe I'm wrong?

its not who your are its the world of pop culture that has your mind
set yourself free of that look at the "beautiful people"
eg. britney spears, lindsay lohan, paris hilton
sure they look really good but
the way they choose to live their lives is ugly

Eh, I know some fugly people who live pretty brutal lives too. Nothing wrong with liking a pretty face, just be nice about it, so you don't chase them away.

Thanks you two,you been somewhat helpful.

Awesome. Good luck to you. :)

look past what you see with your eyes and look deeper into what you see with your heart

LOL whatever floats your boat....

lol dont take it the wrong katy
i love beautiful woman
im just trying to say that some of the prettiest people
have their hang ups too

hey nice guy

all those times in the past

when i said i wanted a nice guy

it appears that i really

did not know what i wanted

i'm sorry but i don't want a nice guy any more

but i always see bumper stickers that say mean people suck

to the original topic poster:
tell him that he is too nice. i am serious. you probably don't know this (or won't admit this to yourself), but the REASON that there is no chemistry is because he is a "nice guy" that lacks confidence in himself, supplicates, communicates beta male characteristics, and is a total tool in disguise.

willn1k and all you other nice guys out there:
what the hell! pay attention! there are dozens of threads here that talk about this whole "nice guy" issue, especially the one I started titled "Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed!"

in short: unenlightened women say that they want a nice guy because they aren't as self-aware as they can be, and they respond sexually and are attracted to a CONFIDENT man. god im so sick of you nice guys refusing to change your pessimistic and self-deprecating ways.

We all do. I'm not taking it the wrong way, I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with liking a hot guy/girl. :)

Well you can do what all girls do to me. Ignore the e-mails!

please tell him soon. Don't break his heart later.

You can *poof* just disappear or do the decent thing and just tell him it's not working out.

Please Cuppy don't tell him you want to be friends as that is the worse thing you can tell someone it just hurts so bad when you hear that as I'm a real shy guy and when I go out with a woman and don't make a move quick enough you turn into a friend and if you really like that person it just depresses the hell out of yeah.

I appreciate all the suggestions. You are all correct in so many ways. He is the second man I ever dated and I just didn't know how to do something like that. Got married, love at first sight. It is true. 28 years later he was killed in a car accident. I thought my life was over. My children encouraged me to start dating, which is a strong comfort. I don't to pick up any bad habits, because whatever I was doing, kept him wanting to come home at night to me. I saw the end of the rainbow and I want it again.

Thanks for all of your very well put responses. I will do the right thing and let him know that I really like him, but I am just not attracted the same way. How does that sound? No nice guy comment or lets be friends. Cat

no way!
u need to tell him that he's too nice. saying that u like him but arent attracted to him is going to confuse the HELL out of him and he might become bitter, thinking that all women don't make sense.
u must inform him that becaue he TRIES to be nicer around women, he is restricting himself from expressing his true inner self around them, thereby killing any potential chemistry.

you could use him as your own personal sex toy.....

look at him in the eyes and say hun i dont want to be mean or hurt you but its just not working out between us. now if he gets mad or sad thats ok he is only human but dont feel guilty or anything its just its not working out