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Edited by
Unknow
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Sun 02/03/19 10:26 AM
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Yes... it's the same way for me. I want a strong man that isn't afraid to show me that he cherishes me and has chosen me That seems difficult for a lot of men but it’s important to me as well. It makes a woman feel secure with her partner. Yes, feeling secure with our partner has a way of bringing out the best in us. For me when I feel secure in a relationship I am able to love more fully. |
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Valid points. But, it can't just be pinned on one gender anymore. In this era of equality an' stuff, a woman should also be able to 'step up', if she has an interest in someone.. Fair is fair. Right? This is not equality. Actually this is hidden inequality: you are saying now that we have equality women have to do the things a man does, or supposed to do. That's NOT equality! Equality is not women AGAIN having to change and do things to please men. We've had that for thousands of years already. It's suppression. It's not a pissing contest and women having to compete with men to prove their worth, which is what it comes down to so far. That is NOT equality. Equality is about MEN accepting, loving and respecting women for being a woman, and to stop treating women like inferior beings because she's a woman. True equality is a woman being truly equal to a man EVEN THOUGH she doesn't behave like a man, for the simple reason she isn't one. Valuing woman BECAUSE she isn't like a man. We are supposed to complement one another, not become clones. That's unisex and unisex is the farthest from equality you can get. Equality is about embracing the fact that the feminine brings in valuable things that balances out the masculine, acknowledging that this influence is needed, and accepting that the feminine way is at times a better solution than the masculine way. Most men who read this will feel emasculated, which shows how much work there is to be done still. I definitely agree. ! 
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I like smoke signals ;0) *lights another cigarette* hahaha I quit the stinkys years ago. |
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If a man has real Interest in s woman, he will tell her. Doesn't have to be an emotional rollercoaster for her to figure it out. Look how men flirt with Some. Women, they aren't shy. 
I f they don't like a woman, they don't DATE. her. Online or in Real life. Comments? flirting is not always a genuine marker for attraction .. both genders are capable of playing mind games (but one is better at it that the other .. girlpower  )
Emotional roller coasters are often an indication there is a mismatch in expectations or perception .. sometimes that is one-sided and self inflicted . |
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Hi...easy going single mother and i will love to met that man who's ready to accept me as i am and my Son Brian, i hope to find that Man here....
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I agree with u
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Changing gears here. I t's just that simple that Women fake sex more than Men do. It usually takes women longer to receive satisfaction than men!
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Valid points. But, it can't just be pinned on one gender anymore. In this era of equality an' stuff, a woman should also be able to 'step up', if she has an interest in someone.. Fair is fair. Right? This is not equality. Actually this is hidden inequality: you are saying now that we have equality women have to do the things a man does, or supposed to do. That's NOT equality! Equality is not women AGAIN having to change and do things to please men. We've had that for thousands of years already. It's suppression. It's not a pissing contest and women having to compete with men to prove their worth, which is what it comes down to so far. That is NOT equality. Equality is about MEN accepting, loving and respecting women for being a woman, and to stop treating women like inferior beings because she's a woman. True equality is a woman being truly equal to a man EVEN THOUGH she doesn't behave like a man, for the simple reason she isn't one. Valuing woman BECAUSE she isn't like a man. We are supposed to complement one another, not become clones. That's unisex and unisex is the farthest from equality you can get. Equality is about embracing the fact that the feminine brings in valuable things that balances out the masculine, acknowledging that this influence is needed, and accepting that the feminine way is at times a better solution than the masculine way. Most men who read this will feel emasculated, which shows how much work there is to be done still. I definitely agree. !
wow, something we agree on. True equality is a woman being truly equal to a man EVEN THOUGH she doesn't behave like a man, for the simple reason she isn't one. Valuing woman BECAUSE she isn't like a man. We are supposed to complement one another, not become clones. That's unisex and unisex is the farthest from equality you can get. I felt women's movement missed the mark by making 'equality' synonymous with 'like a male', instead of valued 'as a woman' the SAME as a man. The domestic jobs they already had deserved to be valued AS MUCH as the financial ones men held, instead of having to also have the SAME job as a man to be 'equal' in value. |
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Changing gears here. I t's just that simple that Women fake sex more than Men do. It usually takes women longer to receive satisfaction than men! Comments? Well since men can't fake it I would say your statement is correct. At least I've never heard of them being able to fake it... they either climax or don't. |
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For myself... I'm kind of shy so I don't really go up and. Approach women.. I see an attractive woman I don't automatically assume she's single... I might wish she is... but that's as far as it ever goes... I guess I just don't really have any good opening lines.. it's hard to walk up the complete stranger who's minding their own business..
And start up a conversation out of the blue at least I find it is... in that moment I can never really think of anything to say... |
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Well since men can't fake it Wanna bet? 
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Well since men can't fake it Wanna bet?
Sure, you gonna prove it? 
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Thu 02/21/19 04:21 PM
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I have heard men say, they weren't satisfied when having sex with certain Women. Wouldn't that be the same as faking it, if he makes out like he liked it?
Next thing you know he's looking for another woman to date. But his partner didn't have a Clue. |
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I have heard men say, they weren't satisfied when having sex with certain Women. Wouldn't that be the same as faking it, if he makes out like he liked it? Next thing you know he's looking for another woman to date. But his partner didn't have a Clue. If he gets off then he's not faking. I don't get how they can fake a climax... it's quite obvious whether they do or don't? But I do see what you're saying. Just doesn't make sense that they didn't enjoy it if they end up climaxing. |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Thu 02/21/19 04:33 PM
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If he gets off then he's not faking. I don't get how they can fake a climax... it's quite obvious whether they do or don't? But I do see what you're saying. Just doesn't make sense that they didn't enjoy it if they end up climaxing. IMO Depends on what he wants in the bathroom ! He may not enjoy it ! |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 02/21/19 04:37 PM
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Okay I see what you're saying. I thought you were talking about faking an orgasm. Faking enjoyment makes more sense.
Personally I think it's silly to fake it. If you don't enjoy it with someone then find someone else. Or be honest about it so maybe both of you can do something different that's more enjoyable. |
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I think 'faking anything' is the same as lying.
Some people think like: Fake it till you make it but that really is the wrongway to go about it in my opinion. Always,...Be true to yourself. In addition, if you are seeking intimate trust with someone, always be true to them too. If the relationship doesn't matter to you, why are you wasting time with it? If it does matter, why lie? Sometimes I just don't get the mindset of some people? Its not that complicated, you don't lie to the one you love? Duh? |
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I've been too shy to say anything, and terribly nervous just thinking about asking; even in my jaded 50's my heart pounds with nerves when asking, it's not easy.
I've hung around and been 'in the circle' of my chosen. I've written poetry and made art for my heart's desire. I've directly declared my love with no ambiguity. I've been totally blunt. Whatever you do, it will only work if the other notices you noticing, and is already attracted. And with today's harassment problem, I only ask once these days, no re-trys, no point in wasting time and hurting more, or being accused of being a pest etc. But also, try to never let a chance go by, because that fleeting mutual gaze could be it. But don't listen to me, I am a relationship finding failure and only attract scammers. 
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I've been too shy to say anything, and terribly nervous just thinking about asking; even in my jaded 50's my heart pounds with nerves when asking, it's not easy.
Try to remember that your opinion is just as valid as anyone's. Nobody but you sees the world thru YOUR eyes. Contributing to a discussion is your take on the subject and it is just as important as mine or anyone elses. |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Fri 02/22/19 01:15 PM
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Unfortunately, there are many fakes Online and Off.
Faking it is not that uncommon. When people are not satisfied in sex or anything else, they. Move on to the next person or things. It's all about Choices. Often making bad ones ! |
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