hello to everyone.this is my first reply to any topic.really enjoy reading the great statements.as a 54 yr old,I`m enjoying every minute of being older.everyone has what I call "dry spells" where u feel like no matter what u do ,u aren`t getting the attention u deserve.but then,all of a sudden,u r getting more attention than u can handle.it`s happened that way for me many times.I think it has a lot to do with what vibes a person puts out.if I`m feeling good about myself I notice that people do seem to treat me accordingly.most of my friends are younger,and I`ve been with several younger men,as well as men older than me,over the years,and enjoyed them both equally.naturally it`s an ego boost when anyone younger is interested,and we all need a boost from time to time...Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all