how do you feel about married men (me) being on here? my wife is very aware of it and has her own profile on other sites.

I personally don't care who's on here, as far as their ideas about who gets to do what with whom, as long as they obey the rule of the site, and show respect for others.

Frankly, someone who claims to be in an "open marriage" is functionally the same to me as someone who is looking for any number of other kinds of people that are nothing like me.

hi, I am his wife and I hope that there are many on here who think like you are

I'm fine with it as long as I am sure that it is a mutual agreement between the 2 of you. Also there would need to be an understanding between the 3 of us what the limits are. Never get in the middle of something where you don't know what is going on!!!

we have what we think is a solid understanding of the parameters of our dating is.

First of all, welcome on board

Now, Mingle is not only a dating site, it is also a social site. So mutual respect is the key to happiness.

I avoid married men and separated men for dating. I maybe want a serious commitment and they are Unavailable for that.

As long as you are not seeking public approval to commit adultery . . . Oh, forget it.

Bring her on here, we can have a 20 question period

If you are both prepared to indulge all the scammers so those looking for genuine exclusive commitment don't have to, you're very welcome

Whatever works.

STRANGE. why be married then? just wondering. maybe its the tax deductions.

hi

Haaahaaa

Not something I'll ever condone.
But, whatever.


Best of luck, an stuff.

As far as I'm concerned, what y'all do to find your own contentment is not my place to judge.
You are both contented, right?

You might find some friends in the forums but you may be hard pressed to find anyone interested in joining you but y'all didn't say that.




What your two posts indicate is that you are looking for validation from people that have suffered some type of relationship snafu?
You might ask yourself why you seek validation?


The thing about 'thinking' is that it is a purely personal thing.
Chances are, one 'thinks' and the other 'agrees'.
If this is what you need, go for it.
Just try to realize that the one agreeing may not always agree.

If the one doing the 'thinking' finds out the one doing the 'agreeing' no longer agrees, are you willing to abandon these preferences to preserve the marriage or is it an "either agree or bye bye" type of agreement?

Just remember that we all change as time passes.

To each his/her own... it's not my thing. I'm quite selfish when it comes to love and don't want to share my man with another woman. If after being together he decided he wanted to experience other women, I'd give him free range to do so... without me in the picture!

I like turtles.

it dont matter what other people think
you 2 are the ones to deside

as for me , if i was married , i wouldnt be seeking else where, cause i would have all ready found the one <shrug>

now if she(would be wife of mine) wanted an open relationship, i wouldn't be married to her

to me my marriage was sacred (all 13 plus years of it), she was the only other human i slept with or kissed

so again i fall in that group of it dont matter what i think

<shrug>

me myself , i wont touch a triangle
they are way to toxic
and you all so take the chance of opening up the door's of the lovely land's of s.t.d.'s

to each there own ,
any who welcome to mingle
best wishes on your hunt