i think everyone has something that attracts them to others

looks are not as important as personality etc, however
something has to catch my eye and keep my attention

i can only go by my own preferences and standards as to what is attractive--

my ex got too comfortable with me, she gained a lot of weight, and she never dressed nice or did her hair. She didn't care about her appearance at all. I became unbelievably unattracted to her.

plus she is 29 and not independent at all, wants to live at her parents house until they die and give it to her.

and she had a lot of cats, I hate cats, her house smelled disgusting because of the cats

cat lady

wow she sounds like bootycall material. but you should have told her she need to get hot

only fat or ugly people

i wonder the same thing. i know there are nice interesting guys out there, but meeting one who isnt looking for "the perfect woman" is hard to find. i hope that doesnt sound too harsh, it is just how i feel sometimes.

it is the same way on this side. extremely attractive men sometimes cannot carry an interesting conversation for very long, unless it is about them and thier accomplishments. i would take an average sweet guy who loves to laugh over that any time!

thanks for saying that. it is nice to hear that a guy actually thinks that way.

Everyone is different so everyone will be attracted to something different. What I hate is a person who belittles others because they dont share their same idea of beauty. It is TRULY in the eye of the beholder. Not your eye but mine. What attracts me isnt the same for you but I am not any less or better for it. So if I like a certain type of person and you dont then so what? Get over it. I wont be happy liking what you like unless it is the same. Anyone can find something attractive in a person if they take the time. But remember beauty fades over time and no one looks the same as when they were 21. There has to be more that keeps a person. If someone doesnt like you then find someone who does. Yes there are shallow people and they will get what they give.

honestly, when you first meet a person, in person that is, physical attrativeness is all you have to go on. Whether it's the eyes or whatever, you don't know anything about them. The special ones are the ones dig deeper into that.

I guess not being able to wear your personality on the outside is one of humans biggest (maybe not biggest) design flaws.

But, I'm with ya!

I agree...where are they?

tell me and we'll both know. My luck he's somewhere in another state or country.