Hi,
Let me pen a few thoughts. I would recommend that you do some soul searching. Emotional independance is a vital ingredient in a happy relationship. If one is so emotionally dependant on someone, the other can feel it. This creates feeling of being "trapped" will make a person run. If I can say, a women want a strong man or an equal. A normal women want a strong emotional arm around her. A successful relationship needs to stand on 4 feet - not two.
Find out what are the roots of your emotional dependance. Lack of attention and love in childhood? etc. If you don't settle first your past and mend it first, you will carry that in to your future relationship - won't give you a successful marriage neither. Even if you find someone who can play that role of caring, one day you might grow up and her role of being the caring partner will annoy you rather that help you. You would then complain of not being " Free" Her role gone, she won't be able to swim anymore. The end of your relationship arrives and you have another headache.

I would fight for her, but in a dignified manner. She is the one who is confused, and she needs to work out things on her own. You should give her space to do that, but send her friendly reminders that you do care a great deal. Maybe in a couple of days you could send her some flowers saying, "I was thinking about you". Then next week you could send her a nice card telling her you will be there for her when she is ready.

You can still be in her life this way without shutting the door. In a couple of weeks, hopefully she will come around. Good luck to you Bobby!

Well, I met a great a girl on here and I was thinking that possibly she was the "one" We have only known each other for a short time. But no one has ever made me feel like this before. Everything was going great we were getting along like I never have before. I was thinking that it had potential to be something great some that doesnt come around everyday in this life. I was with her last night and its was great we kissed and held each other for god knows long. I care deeply about her and I want nothing more than for her to be in my life.Then today she drops the bomb on me that she cant do this. Saying it wasnt me that I was great but she isnt ready for a relationship. I pleaded I think for her to re think this situation. Its seems that her mind made up. She says she is falling in love with me and vice versa. But she is scared. I told her there is a reason that were brought together and not to throw it away because it may never come into her life again and the same for me. I keep begging her not to go (maybe im dumb) My mind is telling me " hey, dummmy! You just met her. Forget about it." My heart is telling me she is special and to continue to try to keep her in my life. It doesnt look like it will happen. Im shattered and I wish I could change her mind. She claims she cares deeply for me but thats why she is leaving me alone. I tell her to get out of my life but then I call her 10 minutes later and beg for her to stay with me. Do I continue the fight or give up?
Is she worth it? Or are the feelings that I have for her worth putting myself through this? What do you think please let me know. Is everything a baited hook?
Angels arent supposed to fly so low

:-( Signed a broken heart

Well just to let you all know I am finished with her even if she calls me I will give her the advangtage to do this again
Just left now with some good memories thats
all and lessons learned thanks to all who replied to this posting all of your consideration is appreciated
NEXT!