I have thought about dating younger ladies but I have not done so. Does it seem creepy for me to even think about it?

If its in expectation of anything long term, it seems odd and unwise maybe, but not 'creepy' necessarily

If its just the whole hook up and booty call thing, it makes as much sense as anything else

It can happen, don't think its for LTR. There is an energy to youth that can be nice to be around and some can make more sense than some older. I've had some for dance partners,,no sex. Oh well still fun

It's probably normal for many middle age men to think about dating a young woman.

Thing is many young women want a young man to date.

Maybe some seeking a Older man for other reasons it may work.

My girl is 17 yrs younger than me

Well, Lord knows we have enough threads on the importance of age difference so no need to flog a dead horse...but if a man seeks out nothing but women he is old enough to have fathered something ain't right. He's trying to relive his youth, prove something to himself, or trying to show off to someone else - any which is indicative of some unresolved mental/emotional trauma.

Or he's just a conceited a$$hole.

men have been dating women half their age since Moses was a little boy in short pants.

The reality is most times it never survives once you are married, its fun when you're dating and getting to know each other but sooner or later the age gap catches up, remember the man is getting older and the women will be hitting her prime.

Would I do it? not for me, as I have nothing in common with a 23 year old.

My gf is 31.



Best of luck.

Beats me.
I don't know you.
For all I know you use "date" as a euphemism for "chain up in my basement after I've stalked them and set up an elaborate meet cute after which I end up hiding in their trunk with a syringe of horse tranquilizer and wearing a clown mask."

It might seem creepy for you to even think about it...are you a creepy person? Do you do creepy things?
Do you have a habit of worrying so much about not being creepy that you end up coming across as creepy?
Who knows.
Not me.

Nah, go for it Pops.. what the hell.

To each their own.
I wouldn't even have an interest in a guy half my age nor a guy even close to my kids ages. I prefer someone close to my age.
But as I said, to each their own interest.

Not a man of means....good luck

Only thing to remember if you do: it can't last that long because you are time and health limited. As long as both realize that, go for it and have fun!!!

Of course you're gonna say that, greeneyes, you're a guy. Haha.

So I would date someone that is 22.5 years old. Hmmmmmmmm. Could be fun. I'll talk about growing up during Iran Contra, and she'll think it happened during WW2.

If she is really much younger, you will look like her dad , when you go out.

I've dated a few men 15 - 19 years older than me. I'm not doing that anymore. At those times, I looked younger than my age and he looked older than his age, as well as a big height difference. I was well into my 30's, in the park with boyfriend, at the time, and a woman got in our business. She was thinking he was a pedophile or something. That did not go well.

We were in the middle of the park, in the afternoon sitting on a park bench talking, holding hands, kissing, like any couple would do. Then this woman comes over who was doing work on the park and was telling him, you have to stop that. My boy friend told her to go away and my girlfriend and I are discussing things. I think the woman looked at me and saw I was older than she thought. Then she said, you can't be doing that here, there are little kids around. We looked around and nobody was there. We were only kissing on a bench, not rolling on the ground half naked. Words were said....my boyfriend wrote a letter to the town, against my advice and she was supposed to have been fired. She wasn't fired.