1. never try to understand girls.
2. never lie surely girl will catch it sooner or later.
3.no matter what dont believes others for ur partner u must confrnt ur partnee in public and ask it in personal.
4. should avoid publishing in public till u both conformed relationship and lived around 2 year +.

just how many golden rules does one need?
i always kinda thought THE golden rule was enough.

I always thought unconditional love, edifying, expressing how much she means to you daily, making her feel secure I'm properly checking her Plumbing.. Was a good start..

I dont date girls, I date women.




that is just a golden rule for everyone




the language translation program isnt great, but I get what youre saying.

Confront your partner first before accepting other people sayings or spreading rumours etc.... that is just common sense.




I think you are trying to say dont advertise that you're in a relationship until around the second year of the relationship, and that I dont agree with, why wait two years?

How about

He/She is a person, Not a possession.

how are those rules working for you yogi

never tried this are just my hypothetical assumptions made by mind after a little fight.

because people usually find it difficult to know if its an attachment or love. attachements are too dangerous where one person try to dominate other after few months whereas love is the best.

1. never try to understand girls.

-But do make sure you get her a HUGE walk in closet. A woman will do just about anything if you do that....just try to not understand why it took the closet to get there.

2. never lie surely girl will catch it sooner or later.

-False. She knew well before you were going to commit the act that would lead you to lie.

3.no matter what dont believes others for ur partner u must confrnt ur partnee in public and ask it in personal.

-Ok. This sentence confirms my point that writing clearly is still key. How do you expect that love letter to work if you write like this? Women love the written word. Is this why your girl was upset with you?

4. should avoid publishing in public till u both conformed relationship and lived around 2 year +.

-Look dude. Is this some "secret lovers" type deal? True...you should always keep your mistress private. But then again, this girl would want to be your girl only so she is going to want it to go public. Sounds like she did this, and you tried to write her a text message that she clearly didn't understand....which lead to you lying (told you she would already know) and thus you didn't understand this girl and why she didn't understand her place with you. Am I right? I think I might be.


Disclaimer....I am having fun with this dude.

Then how do my date/girlfriend/wife and I communicate?
I'm just thinking I'm going to be married to Chris Tucker from Rush Hour. "Can you understand the words coming out of my mouth?" right before "never touch a woman's radio! What's the matter with you?"


That's going to ruin every birthday surprise.


You mean like don't punish your partner based solely on hearsay?
Don't let rumors rule your life? Good luck with that, at least in the U.S. and current media environment.


I'm not sure what this means.
Don't tell anyone about the relationship unless you've lived together for 2+ years?
Don't get legally married unless you both know the other is committed to the relationship and not before 2+ years?

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

That is the golden. rule.

If your love for her ain't true, don't try to win her over just to break her heart later. Don't look into her eyes and lie about the feelings you never even had for her in the first place cause if you do so, it'll destroy her outlook on love, rips her self esteem to shreds, tortures her mind and damage her soul. Know that your intentions may be negative but she on the other hand is trying hard enough to be good for you who's comfortable mishandling with her heart.

Like Toody said. Treat others like you want to be treated.

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My personal golden rule: give 100% in a relationship even if your partner gives in 2% that's true love. Heartbreaks a part of life at least u can wake up and say at least I tried and loved rather wishing u cld have tried

Happy wife, happy life

True dat make her happy and u will be happy no stress

For her.

To make that happen, you must-

Drop all your interests, and focus on her.

Go everywhere with her-without complaint.

Listen intently-offer no advise.

Eat whatever she sets before you. And love it.

Your money is now her money.

And one day, you'll get paroled. (Commonly called divorce- never violate your parole, if you're smart)

I was just being a smart aleck with my remark.
For a relationship to work it takes both making the effort.
It shouldn't just all be about one person.

There's plenty of women that think that way. You might have been kidding, but I was serious about what I said.

Bet you've heard that old saying- Men wish their wives wouldn't change, and women wish their husbands would. I watched that happen when I got married. I was willing to go along with it, at first. When it all started to circle around her, I started to see me go away.

Once she left me, it only took a couple days for me to be happy that she left. now I'm far more cautious about who I get involved with.