hi can we meet?

love that saying joe and I agree .. there has to be something about the person that you find attractive .... it may not necessarily be physical .. if I saw a cute guy stopping to help someone .. my heart would melt .. whether that equates to a romantic melt depends on all my other senses . To me attractiveness does not mean model looks or a perfect body .. I much prefer cute with a beautiful heart

Early 20s is the best time to go out with hot guys who don’t mean anything ... save the serious stuff for when you’re older

That's how women turn off good men.

What he said

I like this advice :)
You are right! I’m too young to look into something committed. Might as well chase the hot guys and bad boys and keep the faithful, romantic guys for later xD

Just don't loose who you are psychologically and spiritually when chaseing them.

I won’t. It’s just that I like her advise :)
I mean, I won’t treat them like toys or so. It’s just that there are so many hot muscular guys in the world but they just want a quick fling, nothing serious. I’m principly not in favor of one night stands because I need an emotional connection with the person, but I keep fawning over the aesthetics and self-confidence of these guys.
Nice guys are amazing but often they don’t know how to satisfy someone in the same way a bad boy can :-(

Yes....Yes.....Always trust in Goof. It says so on the dollar bill...."In Goof We Trust"!

Looks do matter for sure but for me it's also the energetic feel, the aura.
Now I am very sensitive and intuitive, so for me this aspect may be stronger than usual in people, but if looks aren't backed up by the good-feeling energy...

An alpha male... I wonder what you understand that to be.
It is an empowered male, not the so called macho dude. That is far from alpha/empowered.
If you attract players it means you aren't an alpha female (nor are they alpha males btw). Not to judge you, but you can tell by what you attract what your own vibration is, which can be real handy as long as you don't take it personally.

Alpha / empowered men want an equally empowered woman. Because such a man is empowered he is also insanely attractive, without needing to look like a model. But they do have enough self-respect and self-love to make sure they look good. I've never come an empowered male who looked like a couch potato, hihi.
It's in the way they carry themselves, and I think that's where you may go wrong because of your age --> Mistaking having a big ego for being an alpha male.

muscular guy with a higher raging tone good choice.

Haha. I know right?
Deep voices and a bit of nicely maintained beard stubble and plenty of testosterone in his body. Hmmmm that is my type of guy.

I think it is the fact that I love to nurture their masculinity with my feminity, that makes them so appealing to me. Sexually I’m very submissive so it’s a huge turn on when the man takes complete control over me and puts me in my place every now and then. I’m not dominant at all, so I search the opposite in a partner. Someone who is very dominant.

With alpha male, I mean a man who has the world at his feet without worrying about anything. A real womanizer, who takes great care of his body. We all choose our partners based on the instincts we were programmed with ever since the pleistocene. I want a strong man. Someone who is capable of coming home with enough food for me and my kids, when we are out there in the caves. A man who can win a battle from other men. Who can protect me. A man who can make other men respect him. A man who makes other women feel weak in the knees.
I want to submit myself to him. To devote myself to him. A man who takes decisions without asking for my opinion like a decisionless puppy, as he sees fit.
An alpha male who is capable of earning a Mercedes, earning his chair in the company, a man who knows how to live the good life.
A man who was instinctively programmed to breed.
To spread his sperm.
That is the kind of man that I want to be together with.
A man who will roughly take me in his arms and carry me upstairs for passionate make up sex after we have had a fight. A man who will make me respect him. Who expects a warm meal is ready on the table when he comes home after a long day of work.
I know that not every woman has the same taste. This is my taste.
I’m head over heels with bad boys.

when I was younger ...I though buff men where sexy ... but after talking with them ...some did not have any kind of personalty... so what ever they do now is up to them ... but not so attracted to that kind of person anymore ...

If it's looks, then I'm S.O.L.

When I look back over the years and the women that have been in and out of my life the great majority only wanted me for what I had or could give them.

Even though there were very few that wanted me, for me, those that wanted me based on who and what I am are the ones that I have the best memories of. They were not interested in my looks or what I had. They were interested in me. They didn't care where we went or what we did. All that mattered to them, they were with me.

It wasn't about looks. It was about being with someone you click with. I had that opportunity three times in my life. I have good memories. But I also have some regret. I should have taken one of those that wanted me for me more seriously when I had the chance.

Elissals, I don't think that's really a bad boy, as you describe. A bad boy, more someone not mature yet. He'll say, "I'll call you later" but never does. likes getting into trouble, borderline messing with the law. Has no intention of meeting your parents and tells you that. He tells you a lot he'd rather be with his guy friends and you you have to good with that. Those are some things I think about when I hear what a "bad boy" is. That's just my opinion.

I meant “ maffioso boys “ with bad boys.
Criminals are so attractive to me.

Ok, Elissals, I was bringing my idea to this. You also say you like man who is a womanizer. Be prepared that he will always have a wandering eye.

I will make sure that he doesn’t cheat on me.
I will follow him as much as I can.

And that will eventually grow old and tiresome. And most guys, womanizer or not, will not put up with it.