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Topic: Loving muscular guys who are handsome. How much do looks inf
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Thu 07/05/18 07:23 PM



Ok, Elissals, I was bringing my idea to this. You also say you like man who is a womanizer. Be prepared that he will always have a wandering eye.


I will make sure that he doesn’t cheat on me.
I will follow him as much as I can.



And that will eventually grow old and tiresome. And most guys, womanizer or not, will not put up with it.


Then we will find an agreement.
He can sleep with others but I can sleep with others too.
Sounds fun.
I’m sure he’ll like it.

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Sun 07/08/18 12:14 AM
That’s simply called infatuation, you might like those people .. but a relationship is definitely a mater of personal choice :blush:

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Mon 07/09/18 02:55 AM
:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::joy: great option to keep it in life :clap:

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Mon 07/09/18 08:42 AM

I’m fond of muscular alpha males who are handsome.
I adore buff guys with deep voices, over 6 feet tall and with nicely maintained beard stubble.

I must admit though that I have stumbled on quite some players and machos who were very egocentric because I was misleaded by their looks. I let their looks speak and not their heart. Because I was blinded.
Part of it might have to do with my age ( 22 ) an age at which people still care a lot about appearence of others.

How much do looks influence your love for someone?
For me quite a lot sometimes to be honest. I know that I should work past that though.



hmmm. Id say not so much. Dont get me wrong, I would not want to look at someone every day who actually turned me OFF, but that is rare and in between and there is hardly any asthetic that cannot be changed with effort or time. So as Ive gotten older, Ive become much more 'attracted' to the intellectual and moral chemistry I share with a person. How easy it is to laugh together or cry together, for instance. Its more about the FEELING WITH them, than it is the LOOK OF them.


That being said, Id love to have that feeling with someone who ticks off all the physically 'attractive' boxes I hold. But I have yet to find that one who does. so far, each person has some of those boxes ticked and not others, and thats fine, because it doesnt start and/or stop with all those boxes being ticked ... at least not for me.

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Mon 07/09/18 08:59 AM
hello my name is dony i think you are looking for my apreance i have all you need, im from indonesia im single

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Mon 07/09/18 02:26 PM

hello my name is dony i think you are looking for my apreance i have all you need, im from indonesia im single


Not interested but thanks and good luck.
Elissa.

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Tue 07/10/18 02:08 PM


Ok, Elissals, I was bringing my idea to this. You also say you like man who is a womanizer. Be prepared that he will always have a wandering eye.


I will make sure that he doesn’t cheat on me.
I will follow him as much as I can.


BTW, in the USA following him as much as you can would be considered stalking.

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Tue 07/10/18 02:28 PM



Ok, Elissals, I was bringing my idea to this. You also say you like man who is a womanizer. Be prepared that he will always have a wandering eye.


I will make sure that he doesn’t cheat on me.
I will follow him as much as I can.


BTW, in the USA following him as much as you can would be considered stalking.


I thought the exact same thing. I just tried to say it a little different.

I've had 3 stalkers in my life. Three women that I thought I was never going to get rid of. I went through the whole 2 and 10 to get rid of them. Called the cops on them. Restraining orders, you name it.

The first two, after about a year each, I finally did get them to leave me alone. The last one, a few years ago, just suddenly stopped. I found out a few months after she stopped stalking me, another man she was stalking nearly beat her to death. It took someone almost beating her to death to make her stop.

I hate it that it took someone nearly beating her to death to get her to stop. But at the same time, I was glad for her finally being out of my life.


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Sat 07/28/18 10:10 PM
Edited by Unknow on Sat 07/28/18 10:14 PM

For me, looks influence the desire for a relationship, balanced with the whole person.


and I'm nearly 60.



Hey I'm almost 60 too!


But muscled gym bunnies, that are tall, handsome and look like the stunt double for the Bachelor - don't have any affect on me.
They are too much like teenaged jailbait females. Too superficial, wholly plastic, unsophisticated posers.
Because when I was younger I used to look like that when I was a handsome young feller, attending university.
The down side of culturing muscles ish that the older you get, the more time you have to dedicate to minimum basic maintenance to keep those handsome looks.
Just take the former governor of Califoreniah. He spends a great deal of hish free time working out - to NOT look hish age.
And if he ran for POTUS against the Donald he would of won by a huge margin.

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