Topic: Friends
Earlymorning12's photo
Sun 07/01/18 10:56 PM
What do you cal the condition where a man is definitely straight, but can't think of anything worst than having sex with a woman.
i am divorced with 2 children, i'm definitely not gay and have never been gay.
Given a choice between life and death, i would have sex with a woman, but something is not right.
recently a mate of mine pointed out a female model, i can't remember her name, but sexually she did nothing for me.
this doesn't worry me , but does anyone think along the same lines?

Duttoneer's photo
Sun 07/01/18 11:46 PM

Could be some form of depression, maybe better to speak with a medical professional.

shovelheaddave's photo
Wed 07/04/18 03:48 PM
i believe 'asexual' might be the term you are looking for.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 07/04/18 03:50 PM
It would be interesting to know if this happened
before or after you married?

shovelheaddave's photo
Thu 07/05/18 09:29 AM
i think that there is a BIG difference between 'not wanting sex',or 'not enjoying sex' and 'not being able to think of anything worse than having sex'!!!

i also think that you should seek professional help with this!!

Easttowest72's photo
Tue 07/17/18 06:42 AM
Your profile says looking for intiment encounter. So yeah, see a shrink.

no photo
Tue 07/17/18 07:27 AM
Asexual, hetero-romantic.

Asexual situations may be caused by hormonal disturbances. Low testosterone is common in middle-aged men.
Depression can also affect libido significantly. Anti-depressants mess with hormones too. They raise prolactin and decrease testosterone.
I would in your case consult with a general physician and ask to be refered to an endocrinologist for a full check-up.

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Tue 07/17/18 07:54 AM

What do you cal the condition where a man is definitely straight, but can't think of anything worst than having sex with a woman.
i am divorced with 2 children, i'm definitely not gay and have never been gay.
Given a choice between life and death, i would have sex with a woman, but something is not right.
recently a mate of mine pointed out a female model, i can't remember her name, but sexually she did nothing for me.
this doesn't worry me , but does anyone think along the same lines?


Have you been watching " Roseanne" reruns?

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Thu 07/19/18 02:36 AM
Edited by Blondey111 on Thu 07/19/18 03:13 AM

What do you cal the condition where a man is definitely straight, but can't think of anything worst than having sex with a woman.
i am divorced with 2 children, i'm definitely not gay and have never been gay.
Given a choice between life and death, i would have sex with a woman, but something is not right.
recently a mate of mine pointed out a female model, i can't remember her name, but sexually she did nothing for me.
this doesn't worry me , but does anyone think along the same lines?
hello early morning .. there can be several reasons .. biological physiological.. and psychological that can cause a lack of interest in sex .. clearly this is new for you, as you are a father of two children . Not sure how long you have been divorced but stress and feelings of rejection can be enough to trigger issues with libido . Divorce itself can be a grieving process . You really should see a doctor to rule out medical reasons (there are several) .. Elissa is right antidepressants and a variety of medications can result in low libido . If there is no medical reason sometimes counselling to help you work through your feelings about divorce can be helpful. Unclear if you have custody of your children but juggling too many demands/stressors can leave you burnout and feeling no interest in sex . Try not to worry and go have a checkup . Wish you the best of luck x