OMFG how can you women sit here and say you wish you had a man to do this stuff. its a typical nice guy with no edge so clingy. if you really wanted a man like this TRUST ME you would have had him to him lets be friends and then im in the bed with you next

good job on those! every girl will appreciate it

My take on your list, i guess... I'm bored.


*I will always call her every night and tell how much i love her

Thats a sweet idea. I wish I had a guy who called me every night :)

*I will always buy her flowers on any given day

I would rather have flowers, or special things, sporadically when I'm least expecting it then an every day thing.

*I will always take her out to eat

I agree with whoever else said, cooking is the way to go. Going out to eat once in a while is a good treat, especially if you make it like a date.

*I will always share my feelings with her even if we get in a fight

Sometimes people just need to fight and get it out. It's good you want to be in tune with your emotions/feelings.

*I will always spend my every minute with her

I actually wish I had a guy I could spend most of my time with. But it's harder to do then to say. And being apart causes the heart to grow fonder.

*I would want to have a baby with her(sorry)

Babies are cool.

*I will always Respect her Space

Respect is the best thing any relationship can have.

*I will never hide anything behind her back

Trust is part of respect but definitely important.

*I will always Be honest with her

Honesty also goes with trust and respect.

*I will never Hit her

I hope not. Hitting anyone can't be justified.

I'll add another I guess

11. I will give her a kiss to revive her if she happens to eat a poisoned apple given to her by a magic weilding hag.

I'm being a tad facetious but what I'm getting at is people need to stop watching romance flicks cause there's a reason why they're flicks and not documentaries. They are fantasy and not reality. Women always say that one of the things they look for most is confidence you can't be confident if you're always putting people above you.

Relationships are on equal levels not one person on a pedastal and one person kissing her feet all day. Of course you should do spontaneous nice things for a girl you like and be there for her but don't grovel and beg. I've done the "nice guy" act, I used to put girls on pedastals, do everything I could for them, I made a lot of female friends that way.

Good list, but believe me, it doesn't work. Just be you and treat her with respect, honesty and care and you'll do fine. The other stuff is fantasy...

wow, you want to get married??

isnt it great to be tha SWEET TYPE OF GUY

They sound like good ideas on paper (or in this case a computer screen), let's just hope you have the money to fulfill your promises and she doesn't get bored with always getting flowers everday and going out to eat... it kinda loses what makes those things special and thoughtful when you get them all the time.

Also not to nit-pick, but spending every minute with her and Respecting her space contradict each other... How about spend every minute she wants you around with her?

Great romantic policies otherwise though!




...Wow, when did I become a Cynic when it came to true love?

here here on the honesty ,respect and care add trust and communcation , humor to that and you got it going

But now that goes both ways never one sided it takes two to build a relationship and only one to tear it apart.

my advice is: just be yourself.

youre already grown and dont need anyone telling you what or how to do it because you already know enough.

also the word 'attraction' is a good start. women are attracted to men and they dont even know why sometimes. its like some deep chromosome goes off and they feel they just HAVE to be near this person.

i already know im gonna get negative feedback from saying this, but its true.

the only negative feedback i have to that is this...
how the hell does a chromosome "go off???"
study some science

other than that you are absolutely right.

for the sake of clarification, doing things on that list does NOT count as being yourself. think about it...would you do all that for your male friends and family members, too? i'd think not.

stop putting women on a pedstal; they are just people like you and me and are not goddesses that control our lives. women do not respect men that worship the ground on which they walk.

be an @sshole it works wonders hahahaahha

If you ever said that to a girl in person she would be out of your sight the moment you turned around


go read some TuckerMax

~~U SOUND LIKE A MAN WITH THE PLAN~~ IF ALL MEN WERE LIKE U THERE WOULD BE LESS DIVORCES~~

Why do I get the feeling that all the women saying what a great idea those 10 things are have plenty of male friends who'd do those things and yet don't date them?

I agree! There would be a LOT less divorces...because there would be a LOT less marriages.

Robert..thats my problem to...the ones u don't want around hang like a pesty fly...

o boy sometimes u just can't win...lol

Good luck to u...best wishes for no pesty pest....

hey it aint my fault i want to be romantic ... i will surprised her at any moment

Geek whats ur deal here man..you look pathetic

why would i want to be an asshole wow..thats a lame suggestion

how my list is a fantasy.. I will do those thing