Care to elaborate on what makes me look pathetic?

****ing judging what i wrote

dont worry bout it man
we offered the solutions but he didn't bite
let natural selection tell him whether he's right or wrong

lol, trust me, I don't worry about what anyone says about me online. Self confidence right chief.

You shouldn't care what other people think either theels. And just cause I have a different opinion doesn't mean I'm pathetic, that's how immature people act, calling people names because of a different point of view instead of discussing the differences and the validity of someone elses views.

I don't look at women like I need to coddle them through life. I want a woman to be with me because of WHO I am not WHAT I can do for them. You've asked me if I knew what love was:

to me love isn't taking her out to dinner every night, it's learning how to cook so that she doesn't have to do all the cooking when you have a household.

It's sharing in the chores cause it's not fair for one person to be doing everything.

Love is as much about dealing with the bad things that happen in a relationship as much as sharing in the joys.

Love is what happens after the infatuation over and you still want to be with that person cause you enjoy their company and they enjoy yours.

Love isn't always being honest with her, sometimes you need to just tell her what she wants to hear so she'll feel good.

Let me guess, you've never been in a relationship. Cause you sound like me before I was ever in a relationship. Relationships aren't about what you're willing to do for the other person it's about 2 people enjoying each others company not expecting the other person to do anything for them whatsoever.

What is love? (love love) Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

eh, if it didn't hurt sometimes, it wouldn't be love. lol

to me love isn't taking her out to dinner every night, it's learning how to cook so that she doesn't have to do all the cooking when you have a household.

I cant cook man.. i just want to hava long lasting relationship

To me, that says "I refuse to improve myself. I refuse to grow up. But I still want the benefits of the hard work it takes to do so."

Check out my thread "Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed" and read the part on inner game.

have you ever been in a relationship chief

several! and guess what? im certainly not a virgin

sorry that was uncalled for but i couldnt resist

have you?

...have u even kissed a girl before?

yes i have kissed a girl what were you thinking

can u count how many girls you have kissed before? i cant

and u still didnt answer my other question

That's why I said learning how to. You're young you have plenty of time. Taking a girl out for a meal is cool but showing her that you have a skill that translates into the adult domestic world, a skill that not a lot of men possess, and also that you took the time and effort to cook, it's worth it.

It's really not that hard to learn, find recipes for simple things you like to eat online, buy groceries and just try. Nobody's born knowing how. It's the most useful skill to have cause otherwise you'll be eating fast food all the time or blowing money left and right. Every time I visit my mom I have her teach me how to make something. You don't have to be world class chef, but if you can make good homestyle food and a few desserts, it'll knock her socks off.

A lot of girls get asked out to dinner at the nicest restaurants, but if you can make her a great meal, you'll stand out from the herd.

yeah you gave me a good idea

...aaaaand u still didnt answer my other question so ill ask it again.

same one you asked me: have u ever been in a relationship? or rather, have u ever had a girlfriend?

i been single for along time but yes i did have a girlfriend