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Topic: Is too sexual?
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Wed 02/07/18 04:13 PM
The only approach I have been getting so far has been of inappropriate nature.....or from very young men who are just feeding into this new "cougar" phenomenon.
I am certain no one is reading my profile, judging by the questions they ask.
Should I take down the pictures?

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Wed 02/07/18 04:23 PM
no don't take your pics down. Just disregard those young " whipper snappers"

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 02/07/18 04:40 PM
You have a good profile. Don't worry. Some will proposition others no matter what is written in their profile or pictures/no pictures. Just block them. If they are vulgar, you can report them after you block them (it will ask if you want to report too)

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Wed 02/07/18 05:01 PM

You have a good profile. Don't worry. Some will proposition others no matter what is written in their profile or pictures/no pictures. Just block them. If they are vulgar, you can report them after you block them (it will ask if you want to report too)


Thank you for the feedback:sparkling_heart: I think my other question was taken down. Maybe I didn't stick to the topic:thinking:

mightymoe's photo
Wed 02/07/18 07:32 PM


You have a good profile. Don't worry. Some will proposition others no matter what is written in their profile or pictures/no pictures. Just block them. If they are vulgar, you can report them after you block them (it will ask if you want to report too)


Thank you for the feedback:sparkling_heart: I think my other question was taken down. Maybe I didn't stick to the topic:thinking:
what was the other question?

mzrosie's photo
Wed 02/07/18 07:48 PM
Your profile is good. Keep your pictures up.

You have set your filters at 54-74 so if you are receiving messages "from very young men who are just feeding into this new "cougar" phenomenon." then contact the site.. it could be just a glitch.


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Wed 02/07/18 08:09 PM
Great profile and lovely pics. Your profile is not the problem. That kind of response is pretty normal. You just have to weed through it. flowerforyou

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Wed 02/07/18 10:57 PM



You have a good profile. Don't worry. Some will proposition others no matter what is written in their profile or pictures/no pictures. Just block them. If they are vulgar, you can report them after you block them (it will ask if you want to report too)


Thank you for the feedback:sparkling_heart: I think my other question was taken down. Maybe I didn't stick to the topic:thinking:
what was the other question?


I had it in the introduce yourself area and was asking about the people who will surf between their multiple profiles, and suddenly the question disappeared.

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Wed 02/07/18 11:08 PM

Your profile is good. Keep your pictures up.

You have set your filters at 54-74 so if you are receiving messages "from very young men who are just feeding into this new "cougar" phenomenon." then contact the site.. it could be just a glitch.




I'm certain you are right, they don't even seem real profiles at times

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Wed 02/07/18 11:14 PM

Great profile and lovely pics. Your profile is not the problem. That kind of response is pretty normal. You just have to weed through it. flowerforyou


Yes I guess you are right about those responses, thank you.

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 02/07/18 11:53 PM
Nahhh,
Ya got a good profile.
No worries!

mightymoe's photo
Thu 02/08/18 06:11 AM




You have a good profile. Don't worry. Some will proposition others no matter what is written in their profile or pictures/no pictures. Just block them. If they are vulgar, you can report them after you block them (it will ask if you want to report too)


Thank you for the feedback:sparkling_heart: I think my other question was taken down. Maybe I didn't stick to the topic:thinking:
what was the other question?


I had it in the introduce yourself area and was asking about the people who will surf between their multiple profiles, and suddenly the question disappeared.
yea, that sounds about right... They don't like when we talk about scammers/scammerish on the forums

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Thu 02/08/18 06:34 AM
So what could be the reason for not attracting any nice serious gentlemen?

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Thu 02/08/18 06:39 AM
Mix around with the people in the forums a bit. They’re the most personable of thos site from my experience. While you’re chatting with nice people here, you will find others through random mail.

mdriganahmed's photo
Thu 02/08/18 06:40 AM
Hlw

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Thu 02/08/18 06:44 AM
I think it’s fine, pictures of your feet would be a bonus

Welcome and good luck

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 02/08/18 10:24 AM

So what could be the reason for not attracting any nice serious gentlemen?

Could be "I do not chat! My life is too busy."?
Kinda like a turn-off to open communication, doncha think?

LeonLeGrand's photo
Thu 02/08/18 11:41 PM
There will allways be people who see this kind of service purely entertaining, so one comment leads to another, just don't react on such reactions, the fun lays in the fact that they hope for a reaction, ignore it. Nopthing wrong with your profile and no your pictures are not provocative.

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Fri 02/09/18 12:59 AM
wow

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Fri 02/09/18 06:26 AM


So what could be the reason for not attracting any nice serious gentlemen?

Could be "I do not chat! My life is too busy."?
Kinda like a turn-off to open communication, doncha think?

HI there, thank you for the feedback. You know it is interesting you say that, I was considering taking the remark out, but I also want to be as sincere as possible.
I am not into being on my phone all day long, most of the time I leave it at home. During my previous job, I was required to check my phone constantly for a variety of crucial information, I wouldn't touch it during my downtime.

Towards the end of the day,when I finally have a chance to open my laptop while sipping a cup of tea, go online in peace and search for that ONE magical message, the one profile that will capture my heart, I find this:
"Hi sexy let's chat "
" hello ......"
Or " I like what I see, give me email and I send to you to see pics..."
Or " where did you go?
Are you there??????
Hi
Wanna chat?
:flushed: I cannot relate to this kind of people and I believe it wouldn't be fair to lead anybody on.

This is who I am, whereas most people I've met, will be preoccupied texting away with people all day long, not paying attention to life around them anymore.
The only way I will invest myself to that extend, is only if I find my one and only:sparkling_heart::two_hearts: can you relate to any of this?

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