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Topic: Is too sexual?
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Fri 02/09/18 06:28 AM



So what could be the reason for not attracting any nice serious gentlemen?

Could be "I do not chat! My life is too busy."?
Kinda like a turn-off to open communication, doncha think?

HI there, thank you for the feedback. You know it is interesting you say that, I was considering taking the remark out, but I also want to be as sincere as possible.
I am not into being on my phone all day long, most of the time I leave it at home. During my previous job, I was required to check my phone constantly for a variety of crucial information, I wouldn't touch it during my downtime.

Towards the end of the day,when I finally have a chance to open my laptop while sipping a cup of tea, go online in peace and search for that ONE magical message, the one profile that will capture my heart, I find this:
"Hi sexy let's chat "
" hello ......"
Or " I like what I see, give me email and I send to you to see pics..."
Or " where did you go?
Are you there??????
Hi
Wanna chat?
:flushed: I cannot relate to this kind of people and I believe it wouldn't be fair to lead anybody on.

This is who I am, whereas most people I've met, will be preoccupied texting away with people all day long, not paying attention to life around them anymore.
The only way I will invest myself to that extend, is only if I find my one and only:sparkling_heart::two_hearts: can you relate to any of this?


I understand this. Maybe you can reword it a different way?

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Fri 02/09/18 06:29 AM
But use the email filters. That will help eliminate those that aren't what you are looking for. Doesn't stop all but it helps

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Fri 02/09/18 07:40 AM
I get the same type of messages. Makes me think I should get off line and just find local places to meet people

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Fri 02/09/18 08:24 AM

I get the same type of messages. Makes me think I should get off line and just find local places to meet people


hi Roasdtrip...you certainly don't have to be an "OR" person...be an "AND", do both - online and local...why limit your search options?..go for it...best...

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Fri 02/09/18 12:29 PM
Aloha mizzdragonfly...I apologize for not responding to your post in my last reply...your profile is far from being sexual...unfortunately, many inappropriate responses are just because you are a female (regardless of what is in your profile)...so you can tweak the wording but i am not sure that would matter much...as yellowrose indicated, using the filters can screen out many of those responses and your intuition/gut instincts/ common sense/etc will help you identify very early all the others...all the best..cheers

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Fri 02/09/18 03:03 PM

The only approach I have been getting so far has been of inappropriate nature.....or from very young men who are just feeding into this new "cougar" phenomenon.I am certain no one is reading my profile, judging by the questions they ask.Should I take down the pictures?

don't take down the pic. i don't talk to nobody that aint got no pic.

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Fri 02/16/18 05:41 PM
your profile is accurate and Clearly visible you look so young may be people contact you are young thnku

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Fri 02/16/18 05:42 PM
it is not sexual

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Sat 02/17/18 10:23 AM
Hii sexy

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