In my humble opinion, your emphasize too much on negativity, very defending towards 'idiots' of which you state there are 95% of them, so focus on those less than 5%. Tell your possible suitors a little bit more about yourself.

Adding further on that, I am a writer, columnist, novelist, millions of books are written about love. Romantically we always like to dream about that special person, waiting somewhere, lurking in the darkness. Many writers have written about 'love on first sight'......no author ever wrote about 'falling in love at first mind'. Euhmmm maybe that's a good topic for a new book, that aside.

It rather strikes me to get a question like that on a website like this, nevermind, that's the challenge.

How many of you have regrets, regrets to have clicked a picture away...making an end before it's begun. The answer is easy, none.
Cause that's how the cookie crumbles at this website, but not only at this website, mostly it will crumble the same IRL. There are exceptions however, making my point, some have a co worker, a boss, a neighbor whatever, you can live years next to that person without knowing you are in love, in love because you feel happy all of the sudden when he/she is around, doing a good job, whatever. Then the rule personality, attitude, mind, will be greater than 'physical attraction'.


If 'Falling in love at first sight', is fake, we can burn the books of great writers, burn the movies, the romcoms, cut away Hallmark's Valentines.

Love and 'falling in love'.....that's why it's called 'falling'...it's a process 'falling in love' suggests a 'movement to an ultimate goal'....to be in love.

Some cultures still have that system, love will grow during the marriage if you are in luck. Mostly the cultures where women have nothing to say, where parents 'sell' their daughters, sometimes even in the family, children of 12 marrying an old geezer of 74, and even unseen, they have no website where they can choose between 'Yes'...'No'...'Maybe'.

Mother Nature gave us two eyes....not one, but two.

Elderly people will along the way of life appreciate more ones attitude, personality, know by heart that a beautiful mind tops a beautiful physique...

But for now, here on this side, you may click 'Yes'....'No'.....'Maybe'....cause that's how the cookie crumbles, and we all do it by two given assets namely 'Our eyes and that picture'.

Well I dare as a man to admit that I first take a glance at the woman, that's nature working that way. Hench that's the way this website works, first impression. You see a picture of a potential suitor, and what happens next? You can click 'Yes''No' or 'Maybe'. That's the whole game here. If you don't like the looks of the picture you automatically click 'No'. And don't be a hypochrit to say 'No I don't', we all do. I see it all the time at my own profile, as I want to date or to get to know a woman between 42-53, most of the 'yes' are younger than my daughter would have been, if I had one. None of them actually looked at my profile, hench they even don't know how old I am or where I live, and that's perfectly written in my profile. So yes we all first take a glance to one other to decide if we want to have a go or not.

That people won't admit to that is their own problem, and putting down clichées in answer to this question.

And fairly I tend to agree with all those things, because that's nice, works good in a group, and I keep on agreeing on that until the next time I see a picture with the question 'Yes'.....'No'....'Maybe'.

There will allways be people who see this kind of service purely entertaining, so one comment leads to another, just don't react on such reactions, the fun lays in the fact that they hope for a reaction, ignore it. Nopthing wrong with your profile and no your pictures are not provocative.