Topic: Which is sexier? A woman's body or her personality?👀👀
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Sat 04/06/19 05:09 PM
a womans body is definitely sexier, but their personality can make them beautiful

Rock's photo
Sun 04/07/19 02:58 AM
Both are important.




Nostalgia's photo
Sun 04/07/19 05:09 AM
For me, she must be slim. I am English, in England, slim is a rare thing, in my generation. And available.
On the other side of coin, I have loud deep voice, slight speech impediment. Open my mouth, they run a mile lol

ivegotthegirth's photo
Sun 04/07/19 08:20 AM

Many men look at Body before brains but then many men are Visual creatures.

winking


Exactly right.
Most women are far less visual than men and most men don't know that.

calista29's photo
Sun 04/07/19 08:46 AM
Nothing beats with ones personality,a combination of right attitude and character,who cares much about someone's physical appearance then?

IUBasketball's photo
Sun 04/07/19 08:57 AM

Nothing beats with ones personality,a combination of right attitude and character,who cares much about someone's physical appearance then?



Looks may attract initially but personality will make you fall in love.

jaish's photo
Sun 04/07/19 11:57 AM
Edited by jaish on Sun 04/07/19 12:01 PM


Nothing beats with ones personality,a combination of right attitude and character,who cares much about someone's physical appearance then?



Looks may attract initially but personality will make you fall in love.


question was: Which is Sexier?

what has love got to do with it? glasses

sharon  's photo
Sun 04/07/19 01:03 PM
you are right sweetheart....

Up2youandme's photo
Mon 04/08/19 01:10 PM
I don't know anyone getting turned on watching jeopardy but I know plenty from watching baywatch lol

QueenSearcher's photo
Mon 04/08/19 07:41 PM
Anyone who says "It's the mind, or personality that is most attractive" is not being honest. To me, the most beautiful thing in all creation is a woman's body! If she turns out to be smart, funny, confident...JACKPOT!! That's all good stuff too.
I also think a man's answer to this question is going to be quite different than that of the female side? I think? But then again...even at 53 y.o. I still haven't even earned my Associate of Arts in that major! LOL

QueenSearcher's photo
Mon 04/08/19 07:46 PM
Edited by QueenSearcher on Mon 04/08/19 07:50 PM
I like that answer! And I like your pic too! You're pretty hot! (msharmony)







jaish's photo
Tue 04/09/19 09:26 AM

thinking on it a bit longer

I don't really rank 'sexy', it just is, there is no more or less.

I believe a womans mannerisms can make her sexy. A womans body can make her sexy.

I think that sexy can be magnified if there are both. Or it can fade if there is too little of one or the other.


It's the way she hold's her body. If a woman can walk, I'll be her dog.

actionlynx's photo
Tue 04/09/19 09:48 AM

Nothing beats with ones personality,a combination of right attitude and character,who cares much about someone's physical appearance then?



That's how I think now.

I didn't always think that way.

But then I met some women whom I did not find physically attractive, but they could turn me on just through conversation. That's when I realized I need mental and emotional stimulation just as much or perhaps even more than visual stimulation.

Through one of my friends here at Mingle, I learned that there are 2 word for this:

Sapiosexuality and Demisexuality

If you can turn me on through a combination of intelligence and emotional bonding, then appearances may not even matter.


calista29's photo
Tue 04/09/19 07:26 PM
Sure,all of us tends to become visual.We do appreciates anything and everything that pleases our eyesBut in reality,when we talk about reality in the true sense of the word.One's character and attitude will out shine the most,it radiates naturally to your entire being that makes someone more appealling to me.

Who cares if you are a stunner when your head is full of ****,ego and pride when i speak to you?






calista29's photo
Tue 04/09/19 07:33 PM


Nothing beats with ones personality,a combination of right attitude and character,who cares much about someone's physical appearance then?



That's how I think now.

I didn't always think that way.

But then I met some women whom I did not find physically attractive, but they could turn me on just through conversation. That's when I realized I need mental and emotional stimulation just as much or perhaps even more than visual stimulation.

Through one of my friends here at Mingle, I learned that there are 2 word for this:

Sapiosexuality and Demisexuality

If you can turn me on through a combination of intelligence and emotional bonding, then appearances may not even matter.




To simply my standard here,lynx.....what's inside someone's HEART and how that someone treats others sweeps off my feet easily.

ram's photo
Tue 04/09/19 09:24 PM
Being sexy is a personality trait..... So personality is much important.

msharmony's photo
Thu 04/11/19 09:14 AM
Sexy is in the eye of the beholder who may be judging the body OR the personality.

Someone sees a woman with coke bottle curves and thinks she is sexy without ever knowing her personality. Someone else sees a woman that has not much of a figure and doesn't notice her much, UNTIL they get to know her personality. And her personality may be the thing that makes her 'sexy'.



actionlynx's photo
Thu 04/11/19 09:33 AM

Sexy is in the eye of the beholder who may be judging the body OR the personality.

Someone sees a woman with coke bottle curves and thinks she is sexy without ever knowing her personality. Someone else sees a woman that has not much of a figure and doesn't notice her much, UNTIL they get to know her personality. And her personality may be the thing that makes her 'sexy'.





Exactly. Which is why each of us can only answer from our own personal perspective.

I used to think a woman's body determined how sexy she is. Then I learned that was not the case. But that's just my experience.

Someone else may think differently. Just as I once did.

Rooster35's photo
Thu 04/11/19 09:45 AM
Neither.
What's sexier to me is how much she cares, how much empathy she has towards me and others... true empathy, not pretend and blah blah, not virtue signaling but concrete show of affection and caring.


mysticalview21's photo
Sun 04/14/19 07:14 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sun 04/14/19 07:15 AM

50/50



I get that being so many have different kinds of physical attractions for another ...

and the other who they are on the inside ...


50/50 makes the most since ...