Every woman is different so they cannot be lumped into one catagory. Plus, there are women who have issues that cause them to be attracted to jerks. They suffer in this situation, it is actually a sad thing.

My Mrs. Right would probably drive me nuts because she'd be "right" all the time.

all I could retort *snivelingly* "Yeeeeesssss Deeeaaaar MmHmmm, You're right Dear."

it's bound to happen though

Women can't have mr right because my girlfriend already has him

Women want a man who is sensitive, considerate, with a fine sense of style, and an eager ear

but most of those guys already have boyfriends

That shouldn't be an issue.. I tend to only occupy one at a time.



Well here's a twist for ya.

"mr jerk or mr addicted to drugs..." That would be a fair assesment of me at a relatively distant part of my life.

"intellegent, techno-geeky, has a job, etc..." is a fair description of me now.

The funny thing is.. none of us are single dimensional.

No matter what philosophical base you happen to subscribe to... Much of the posts in here are discussing in black and white what black and white can't possibly describe.

Human nature does not work that way.

So unless we are discussing (Excuse the blasphemous example, for those religious types that accidentally found themselves reading this) Jesus's and Mary's dating issues, because they keep ending up with One of Satan's minions... or any other of an infinite number of Good Vs. Evil examples, we can see in our world, myth or legends... We all have the capacity for both good and evil, and I see people interchange them all the time, me included.

I want Mr. Rollinthehay!

mr right for sombody. hope im found to be mr right not just mr right now

I'm "Mr. Right On" when I'm feelin funky fresh

To clear this up i hope, we are programed yes we men and women to just seek out the pretty people we see it every where on tv billboards magazines we are tempted with looks, we have forgotten about whats inside each one of us when people meet it is about the physical and not what is in the heart or mind only later do you find out and by then the relationship is over because you were simply not compatiable. If we spent more time chosing our mate like we do chosing cloths or cars then we most likely would not be discusing this as well we would not be on jsh. Again my opinion

That is sooo true! I look back on all that has gone on in my life and I had some tough times was a real bad girl in my early 20's and then again had some real good times...it is both the good and the bad that has made me the person I am today.

which I hope is rather well balanced and flirting with neutrality rather then good or evil

Only problem i see here is Mr wrong acting lik eMr right till he gets what he wants then becoming a idiot and hurting feelings of others. Is chivalry dead or just mortaly wounded?

Your insight is only surpassed by your beauty...
Here...let me get that door for you.

ty for the compliment and sure you may open the door for me anytime hun.

That is one way to look at it.

Another way is.
Either you consider yourself above human nature and really don't have a bad side, never made mistakes at someone elses expense, completely selfless, wholesome and perfect in every way, or I am subhuman along with everyone else that has made mistakes and changed their behavior accordingly, in their lifetime...

If either of those is true...best of luck with that outlook.

Hello all. Here's my take on the subject. All of us women have different opinions of 'MR. RIGHT". My "MR. RIGHT". may be different than yours. We are all looking for different types of men. Personally, there isn't just one "MR. RIGHT". out there. It's to each his/her own. I'm just looking for a nice, decent, respectable man. Someone who is on the same page as I am. Not looking for a GQ model or "MR. PERFECT". No such man exists. Just keeping it real and putting in my 2 cents worth.

There is no such thing as Mr./Ms. Right. To believe in perfection is not fair to you or your potential mate(s) and only serves to set you up for failure and disillusionment.

The great Will Shakespeare says, "...Roses have thorns, and silver fountains mud;/Clouds and eclipses stain both moon and sun,/
And loathsome canker lives in sweetest bud...."

WE all make bad choices and it's live and learn. Sometimes you fall for people for all the wrong reasons. Some women do like the bad boys.
Personally, I do want a nice guy. Im not into abusive jerks or selfish guys.
You will find someone for you if you look around. I believe that there is someone for everyone.

What is with all of the mr. right, mr. perfect, miss right etc? they do not exsist so stop dreaming and come back to reality. if thats what you want you will never find it. you are expecting someone to be above human. EVERYONE has flaws. thats what makes us different, but it also makes us beautiful. appreciate the little things, know when someone isn't treating you right, and just have fun.

I think he might just mean,,,HIS FIT, like FEELS like the ONE..

But I have lived to be happy and have fun in life, but.
To be hurt and hurt again,,,,is to REALLY WANT,,,
THE BEST ""CLICK"" you can have with another..

And the older we get the more WE FEEL we need THAT!