How would you feel to date a guy who live with his best girlfriend, who he tried to date before, text her everyday but said to you nothing is going on?

Reversing things appropriately, I would approach a situation like that cautiously.
Take time before becoming intimate, to thoroughly investigate the situation.

At my age, the only reason why a woman would claim to be living with an ex-mate like that, with "nothing going on," would be if she was essentially not being entirely truthful. Not necessarily lying about the relationship, but at least lying about being in any way shape of form, ready to start up anything serious with someone else.

My basic advice is, keep such a guy at arms length at least, until he adjusts his life so that he ISN'T still living with an ex.

gosh! That is refreshing and here I thought I was the bad one.
Well that happen to me and I believe in him for 4 months but realised it was a lost cause. plus 2 women under the same roof it wasn't easy to adjust.

3some? just a thought

JOE!

Go with Igor's answer...

I was thinking out loud

You could say that but she wasn't type
prefer hairy legs

I will..trust me

another way to turn it around is to ask how you would view it if it were you living with a male friend that you were good with as a roommate but had long ago made it clear that you had no romantic or emotional interest in?
what would be the chance of you hooking up with him?

just because he wanted to hook up with her, doesn't mean that she would EVER give him the chance. had she wanted to it would likely have happened long ago, dontcha think?

I thought about that but even his own kids thought he was having it with her. they went on holiday book one room with twin bed and spend 1 week on vacation? eugh! if you are only friends you don't glue yourself that close together?

If it is something that bothers you, then move on

I did

Its heck when our hands listen to our minds...

You control your destiny in life.
Because, it is your life.
If you tolerate bad things in your life, only you can change it.
You do have a choice.

Consider that this experience was vital to your own wisdom.
It is part of what makes you, you right now.
If you did not have this experience, you would be a different person right now.
Just remember that wisdom is gained by both the bad AND the good we experience.

I seriously doubt you will have any trouble finding someone right for you.
Consider that such an experience might be an indication of low self-esteem.
Use this experience to build self-confidence.
When it comes to finding someone special to you, its okay to be selective.
Try to remember that all people have faults in our expectations.
Find someone that has faults in the places you can tolerate with ease.

"He burps at the supper table. But, he does say excuse me. I can live with that."
"He lives with his X-girlfriend...I can't live with that."

Try to remember that you have faults too.
The trick is finding someone that has as little problem with your faults as you do with theirs.

Thank you for your comments and well spoken too.

I hear you..if you not happy then live the situation and trust your instincts and I just done that.

the rest is a learning curve and try to avoid it in the future.

You're welcome and thanx.

Try to remember there are some people that may consider your experience a desire to gain, not something to avoid.
You should do what is right for you.
They should be able to do what is right for them.
You are not them, they are not you.
The only thing that really matters is that you do what you feel is right for you. After-all, it is your life you are living.

Personally, I think you should come to Mississippi, USA so I can meet you in person...

USA is far away from my little London in UK.

I guess technology will keep us penpals

I would think the same thing you thought

that they were screwing each other.

which, of course they were.

I agree, Distance does matter...

NOPE.