Topic: Did I make a mistake
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Fri 11/30/07 01:45 PM
By talking to my ex-Bf's friend on the phone.

His friend has been emailing me, and wanted to talk on phone. So today we've talked, and I admit it was an "OK" conversation, but he didn't seem too bright.

Now i'm kind of regretting talking with him today.

I just hope this doesn't get back to my ex, I'd really hate for him to call me to start a fight, but it's probably too late for that now.

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Fri 11/30/07 01:48 PM
Does your ex-boyfriend have the right to decide with whom you speak? flowerforyou

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Fri 11/30/07 01:49 PM
Ummm, why would you or your "EX" care?? The "EX" stands for something. :tongue:

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Fri 11/30/07 01:49 PM
Edited by wouldee on Fri 11/30/07 01:49 PM
naw.....

you just found another road to nowhere.


smokin drinker bigsmile

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Fri 11/30/07 01:57 PM
cardinal rule, DO NOT TALK TO EX"S FRIENDS AFTER YOUVE BROKE UP.. more then likely the ex will find out and im sure you prob just broke up a friendship between friends. theres that fine line kinda like when a buddy breaks up with a girl u stay away for a year or two before talking to her :) gotta let the tension fade and wait for teh buddy to get attached to someone else....

poor guy... sniffle snifflesad

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Fri 11/30/07 02:00 PM
Edited by kearbey75 on Fri 11/30/07 02:01 PM

By talking to my ex-Bf's friend on the phone.

His friend has been emailing me, and wanted to talk on phone. So today we've talked, and I admit it was an "OK" conversation, but he didn't seem too bright.

Now i'm kind of regretting talking with him today.

I just hope this doesn't get back to my ex, I'd really hate for him to call me to start a fight, but it's probably too late for that now.
if you dont want it to get back to your ex, then you shouldent have done it, sorry!
but thats my apenion, about 50% of my friends have done my ex wife after we seperated.

some friends hu!!

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Fri 11/30/07 02:04 PM
Solution to the ex-calling: Don't answer the phone.

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Fri 11/30/07 02:05 PM
Anyone that is even associated to my ex...I don't even talk to them. I have no reason to...esp if they are a male. I think it would do nothing but cause problems!!
I agree though, my ex can not tell me who to talk to...I just want nothing to do with the ex~~he is an ex for a reason. What you need to do is just tell this guy that you made a mistake by even talking to him.
Good luck flowerforyou

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Fri 11/30/07 02:09 PM
if he is an ex then it shouldn't matter to who you talk to
and just use restraint on how you takl about your ex if you are harsh or cruel in your words about him it will get back to him

if you don't want to talk to this guy on the phone then dont

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Fri 11/30/07 02:10 PM
should just move on
other guys out there .

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Fri 11/30/07 02:14 PM
Umm...well I think if your ex's friend and you were friends before there's no harm in talking on the phone? especially if nothing of interest happened in the conversation.

Unless your ex will get really fight you for talking to his friend innocently? I don't know...I think it's silly if he does.

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Fri 11/30/07 02:18 PM
Thanks AngeBrulant! It was innocent and he was the one emailing me knowing that he's friends with my ex... Maybe he really isn't his friend.

And My ex has done far worse to me then I have to him, lol this was just a simple HELLO.

drinker

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Fri 11/30/07 03:31 PM
Ok.. since when does your ex have control of your life and who you talk to. if the guy was spitting good game then what? would you stop talking to him just because of your ex.. im dating my ex best friend and its not a big deal

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Sat 12/01/07 03:52 AM
dudes arent chicks.
if a dude's friend was just talking to his ex, here's what it MEANS to him: "my friend talked to my ex."
if a chick's friend was just talking to her ex, here's what it means to her: (the possibilities are endless)

to your ex-boyfriend, the fact that u talked to his friend wont mean anything other than... well... u talked to someone lol

don't worry about it... guys don't seek/create drama.