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missmissyj Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 27	Sat 12/01/07 07:08 AM
Don't call her back, you did the right thing!

SomeCut005 Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 6	Sat 12/01/07 08:46 PM
Hell no u werent wrong for telling her 2 call someone else who cares!!! My ex did the same thing but we don't talk at all; I needed 2 do what I needed 2 do 4 me 2 heal. Every dog will have his/her day, and as my grandma wld say, every good dog will have two! Let's just say he is realizing the mistake he made--big time!!!

RomanticSoul Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 914	Sat 12/01/07 08:55 PM
You did the right thing!! Bad women, like that, give us good women a bad name and we don't deserve it either.

TheiaLynn Joined Wed 11/07/07 Posts: 274	Sat 12/01/07 10:41 PM
Don't call her back or you will just be asking for more heart ache.

millerme Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 98	Mon 12/03/07 11:41 AM
you know ill give you credit the normal thing to do would be not call her back cause she hurt you, but being a man, the manly thing to do would be call her back dont let anger over the past controle your life, just be a man and call her back.

GE359 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 49	Mon 12/03/07 12:08 PM
<<= Late to everything as usual. My opinion is this Kear: Calling back? It's 4 days later and I doubt it matters at this point. She has your son (If I read correctly) and I'm sure you care what happens to your son, and that is usually a result of what happens to the mother. Should you get involved with what happened between her and the boyfriend? Hell no! I think you should you take the opportunity to "offer to take your child so she has time to deal with her mess she got herself into". I think it could help you in the long run. I care about what happens to my ex, but do I feel responsable to fix it? No, I do not. You have one tie, your son. Outside of that I don't think you would give this woman the time of day ever again from the way it sounds. Not calling back, I believe, let her know you were not going to be her doormat anymore. Just my 2 cents.

kearbey75 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 867	Mon 12/03/07 01:30 PM
<<= Late to everything as usual. My opinion is this Kear: Calling back? It's 4 days later and I doubt it matters at this point. She has your son (If I read correctly) and I'm sure you care what happens to your son, and that is usually a result of what happens to the mother. Should you get involved with what happened between her and the boyfriend? Hell no! I think you should you take the opportunity to "offer to take your child so she has time to deal with her mess she got herself into". I think it could help you in the long run. I care about what happens to my ex, but do I feel responsable to fix it? No, I do not. You have one tie, your son. Outside of that I don't think you would give this woman the time of day ever again from the way it sounds. Not calling back, I believe, let her know you were not going to be her doormat anymore. Just my 2 cents. good point, but she wont let me take my son across the state line, she thinks ill keep him, were going through the devorce now, she has the upper hand, i just dont want to mess anything up for me. as it is, i get him during the summer, and can see him whenever i like.

jmdme Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 6	Mon 12/03/07 02:34 PM
i just got a call from my ex wife, shes crying on the phone, telling me to get back here and kick this mexicans a#s, because he left her and went back to his wife. her heart is now broken. she was seeing this man for 5 months. we were together for 8 years, she left me, then proceded to mess with my heart for 2 years, she kicked my heart around for 2 years, i cried every night for 2 years, my heart was tore up, all i wanted to do is die, shes calling me for simpathy, like i should care, i told her to call someone who cares, was i wrong to do that, should i call her back. Tell her you find her comments racist and do not fraternize with racists. You can do better bro.

GE359 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 49	Mon 12/03/07 02:44 PM
<<= Late to everything as usual. My opinion is this Kear: Calling back? It's 4 days later and I doubt it matters at this point. She has your son (If I read correctly) and I'm sure you care what happens to your son, and that is usually a result of what happens to the mother. Should you get involved with what happened between her and the boyfriend? Hell no! I think you should you take the opportunity to "offer to take your child so she has time to deal with her mess she got herself into". I think it could help you in the long run. I care about what happens to my ex, but do I feel responsable to fix it? No, I do not. You have one tie, your son. Outside of that I don't think you would give this woman the time of day ever again from the way it sounds. Not calling back, I believe, let her know you were not going to be her doormat anymore. Just my 2 cents. good point, but she wont let me take my son across the state line, she thinks ill keep him, were going through the devorce now, she has the upper hand, i just dont want to mess anything up for me. as it is, i get him during the summer, and can see him whenever i like. I'm not sure, but you may want to check on this. Her "boyfriend" may not be "by law" able to sleep in the same house with your son unless they are married. Like I said I'm not sure but if you are going through divorce you may want to check on that. In any event I do agree with jmdme that I find her comments racist and how does that make her look if they are/were a couple? Would it be a bad thing to explore the idea that you have your son full time?

kearbey75 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 867	Mon 12/03/07 02:48 PM
yea, that law dont apply in oregon, now in arkansas it does, thanks though.

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Mon 12/03/07 02:52 PM
Buy her a big purple dildo for christmas. lmao! Toooo f**ckin funny! Give this woman nothing!

kearbey75 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 867	Mon 12/03/07 02:54 PM
Buy her a big purple dildo for christmas. lmao! Toooo f**ckin funny! Give this woman nothing! thanks, i agree.

GE359 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 49	Mon 12/03/07 02:55 PM
Damn dude that does suck. It does apply here in Louisiana I believe. NP Well if she keeps going on the way she is, perhaps she'll prove herself to be an unfit mother and you will assume custody by default. I believe in the respects of all involved that you should only call when it pertains to the welfare of your son. That way you keep yourself safe from the emotional fits she seems to be turning out.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 12/03/07 02:58 PM
Don't go back with her, she obviusly doesn't care about you. She was just angry with the other guy for doing pretty much what she did to you. Don't call her back, don't feel bad for handling it like you did, you did good.

GE359 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 49	Mon 12/03/07 02:58 PM
Buy her a big purple dildo for christmas. lmao! Toooo f**ckin funny! Give this woman nothing! You are right, let her deal with the hard time she put herself into!

kearbey75 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 867	Mon 12/03/07 02:59 PM
as far as the emotional part of it, im done with that, im over her, and if she gets hurt by other men, i could care less, but if she involves a crazy man in my sons life, then ill be there to take care of it. as far as custody goes, we have came to an agreement on that. so thats all good.

GE359 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 49	Mon 12/03/07 03:01 PM
as far as the emotional part of it, im done with that, im over her, and if she gets hurt by other men, i could care less, but if she involves a crazy man in my sons life, then ill be there to take care of it. as far as custody goes, we have came to an agreement on that. so thats all good. Sounds like a plan then Kear, I'll be hoping for the best for ya!