..ok.. how comfortable are you in your own skin..
In those moments of intimacy..
Do you need it to be hot and heavy leading up to the bedroom.. taking each others clothes off as you go.. or do you prefer just to go to the bedroom disrobe in front of each other and then silp beneath the sheets.. and then get busy with it..

Or do you need the lights off.. to prepare yourself
. Complete darkness.... so the other person does not see you in your birthday suit in the true light of day.. basically you're shy..
Have a few body issues..

Just curious..
And yes I'm aware of what it did to the cat..lol

. I like hot and heavy in the beginning of a relationship.. but after a few go-arounds I kind of prefer just to go to the bedroom disrobe in front of each other
. Slip beneath the sheets... and getting busy with it..lol...hmmm
. Really wish I had a it right now..lol..

Lights on or lights off, No1?

Since I have made love inside, outside, lights on, lights off, here there and everywhere I think it depends on her comfort as I really don't think about it. Its more about sharing myself with someone I love than with setting up a stage and performing for review.

difinitely on unless ud like to save a couple of more surprises in a romance

.. myself I'm perfectly comfortable with the lights on... or just afternoon sunlight streaming through the window.

But sometimes it's nice to shut the lights off just have a little flickering candle light..mmmmm.. so romantic

First I have to say, this is propelled by gender.
Men need the visual to help, er, set to launch.
It is just the way they are made, seeing the
female body is a needed turn-on for them.

Women, and for the same reason we close our eyes
when kissing, do not have that same need.

If your eyes are closed, or if the light is off,
it sends you to another place of imagination where
you feel more deeply, see more clearly and become
more..ready.

Not that we do not enjoy the male body, mercy, we do,
we just do not need the striptease to get where
we are going.

.. that are you're just fantasizing about Fabio well with the other guy..lmao..wink.jk.

Fabio!!
The first Kardashian!

Have a good conversation first!

.lol. that's always a good idea talk their ear off until they can't take anymore and at that point they don't care if the lights are on or off .. he will do anything to shut you up.. keep you from talking on and on..lol.. I'm so kidding conversation is key communicating is very important in a relationship

Most important before sex!

all our other senses are heightened when we cannot see...i think thats why they have blindfolds invented lol

i do agree bondey everytime i see a well
cut and cooked steak and the most delicious looking cake i cannot help but salivate

Don't matter to me, she might wish to have them off though.

.. I prefer to use a scarf or one of my neck ties as a blindfold.. just saying LOL

now where have i seen that kind of scene hhmmm fifty shades of gray or fifty shades of phd

Well you only need blindfolds when the lights are on....

Guess we know your answer.

The lights are on but there's nobody home