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Topic: Why would someone....????
katinvegas's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:22 AM
Why would someone go through all the trouble of getting to know someone on here and sound so eager to meet you and then never show up? What would that point be? Especially if they were the ones that went out of the way to everyday over the past few weeks....either send an email to say hello or an message on a instant messenger? I just don't get the whole point of it....

Jtevans's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:24 AM
I don't have the answer for that.some people just like to play mind games with people

bgeorge's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:26 AM
probably because they were lying about themselves and when you called them out they freaked...had no choice but to be a no show

susie_netherton's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:27 AM
its seems to be a all the time thing here,on the internet. I dont get the point of it either,i guess they are all just afraid to make the next step. Fear keeps people from doing many things that would make their lives better,it disables them. Its a shame because,there would be alot more happy people in the world,if some of them gave love a chance. susie

Thunderella's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:29 AM
He was married....

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:31 AM
Cold feet. He got to thinkin.

Amalie's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:31 AM
guess we will never know!

sorry it happened to you!

best of luck and hopes of better things/men to come!!

katinvegas's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:31 AM
I think your right. I just don't understand what the point is of even bothering with being on this site or any others if your going to be like that.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:32 AM
He had t place a bet?

no photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:32 AM
Hey. Sorry to hear you got hurt :(

Obviously, this person either got cold feet. It's hard to start dating again once you been burnt so many times in the past. OR he is just a jerk that doesn't derserve you in the first place. Maybe he really isn't single? There could be many reasons.
I wouldn't let it get to you, you're a beautiful woman and I'm sure you'll meet a real man soon.

pashen37's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:33 AM
most people who do that are not comfortable with them selves in real life and tend to flake out

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:33 AM
Got arrested by the feds for insider trading?

no photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:34 AM

I don't have the answer for that.some people just like to play mind games with people


I don't think it was a mind game, I bet he panicked or something at the last minute.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:36 AM
Was his first name kevin and was he 52 years old?

katinvegas's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:38 AM
It isn't that I really got hurt by the whole thing. Just bascially bugged by it. Guess it just pissed me off that he is actually still on here and couldn't even answer an email when I asked what happened to him.

ladynluv2be's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:39 AM

Why would someone go through all the trouble of getting to know someone on here and sound so eager to meet you and then never show up? What would that point be? Especially if they were the ones that went out of the way to everyday over the past few weeks....either send an email to say hello or an message on a instant messenger? I just don't get the whole point of it....



Has he tried to contact you since? I was in contact with one person on here that done the same thing but I figure it was his lost and my gain to find out how he was before things went any farther.
Dont give up there are some good ones on here that do show up. I have meet a few, they may not have been my match but some have become very good friends.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:39 AM
I'm being serious. Was his first name kevin and was he 52 years old?

katinvegas's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:39 AM

Was his first name kevin and was he 52 years old?


No.....

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:42 AM
Well I hope it doesn't jade you too much. Gotta check your expectations on here.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 11/27/07 08:43 AM
Well I hope it doesn't jade you too much. Gotta check your expectations on here.

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