You re off the hook kristi. In those situations, you are often not informed that its being done.

That's new to me. Thanks for defining them. Seems an act of cheating to me. Once you do not become honest even to yourself about anything in general, and once your loyalty has been compromised, big or small, it means cheating in my opinion.

I've never heard these expressions but interestingly enough I think I've known people who've done this kind of thing, admittedly when I was in my late teens.


I heard the term 'danger bang' for the first time just a few months ago. When I asked what it was I was told it's when you know a woman or man, as the case may be, is a bit of a nut case, but it attracts you because it adds to the excitement during bed time. Each to their own I suppose.

I agree IamAsel. No matter what terms or behaviors people choose for their relationship, I think most of us would agree that we require honesty

Hi joe

Danger bang? Well that term is new to me, but the behavior it describes is not new to me.

I think thats also the case with the terms in this post and all the modern relationship labels out there in the twitter verse.

People probably have been practising these behaviors for years without labelling them.

Maybe labels are part of validating the practices. For the most part ,its the honesty that matters in the grand schemw of things so people can at least know what they ate saying yes to. Aside from that , to each his own as you said