OH WELL, maybe he gets drunk and gets on JSH as his gett-a-way =)

lol hence the new topic "if i'm cute hit me up". He must be feeling pretty good tonight!!

Mostly very confident and able to take each rejection with 2 shots! i bet he doesnt know we are talking about him ... im so mean im sorry

Noticed that, too, Wiltard.

Joined after being single for well over a year. Was on vacation and decided that I missed having a special someone in my life. After some hits and misses, some no starters, found someone incredible to spend time with.

M

Response to Wiitard:

I did. Mainly because I'd like to try and make some friends and thought this might be an interesting way to do so.

I joined yesterday. My ex broke up with me in September..

joined in october i think...after the break-up of my marriage in September..(we were married almost 5 years, and then out of the blue, he decides he just doesn't love me anymore, and doesn't even want to try to make it work)
Becca

i am guilty i joined after a broken heart too i know how ya feel.

Yea, me too. I'm still scared meeting someone.

Joined after divorce was almost final. I liked the community forum.

Fun to meet people. Transition from married to single is a little tough. Familiarity vs. new personalities and life experiences.
I should have been more like my ex and kept in better practice.

It seems like to me that no one takes time to heal after the break-up!! If you guys are still hurting, then why do you think its wise to become involved with someone else? Don't you think it would be better to get over the other person first and then spend some time alone?
I just don't understand why people always feel the need to "have to be with someone." Honestly being single is not so bad!! When people ask me how long I have been divorced, I reply, I have been happily divorced for 10 wonderful years. Single life for me is very nice, quiet, and less chaotic around my house!! Sure I have dated a few times, but I am in no big hurry to jump into a relationship. I have found a lot of things out about myself by being single~~its called "ME time"...try it some time, its not that bad!!!

I don't feel the "need" to be with someone right away. I was alone a long time before this last relationship. I also don't feel the need to validate my existence with a man. I was hurt very badly this time and yes, my confidence has been shaken. I have met a lot of nice people here (I've also never been on a site like this before). I'm not ready to jump into something else; not fair to me or someone I might happen to meet on here. Just trying to keep it together and enjoy the forums.

Valid points. No jumping into the fire too soon here. Had alot of me time when I was married as well as now that I'm single. That me time is different now though, and my eyes are open a little wider to things I didn't notice before. There was a long separation before the divorce.

I'm here my divorce is proceeding along. I was married 10 years and together 15 with her, but really have been hanging on by a thread for several years. It might seem soon, but I'm also not planning on jumping in full steam. Plus, I have a paralyzing panic when asking women out, so I've gotta work up my courage a bit.

Two years since I had my heart unaestetically ripped from my chest. Bless us all.

6 months for me before I joined after a 2 year relationship..


I have met some really nice people on here and love reading all the forms..

oops spell check FORUMS

2 years for me..i need new friends

I joined about 3 months after I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years. A week later though, I found a girl on Craigslist and we've been seeing each other since. I'm only on here to post smart ass responses on the forums and to meet people for friends.

My last relationship was 3 months ago but dating off and on since then ... figured I'd give dating one last try here on this site and just meet people, see what happens.