Im really puzzled because I find it very difficult to find women who want to be friends with a man and have good time together and not trying to find someone to marry.
What is better than be good friends and have very good time together and in the same time have your independence?

And don't start with me about feelings...cause amongst true friends there is always true feelings and straight talking.

I would love to hear your opinion but particularly by women.

Women have time clocks.
That tick real loud.

your profile states that you are looking for a intimate encounter.. which means you are just looking to get laid

Most woman are not going to respond to that.

In other words you want FWB and many women don't want that and you don't understand why they don't

Intimate encounter doesn't mean only this.
Nevertheless sex is an adult activity and in my belief very important not the most important for a good relationship.

So if there are mature women that find sex not important...then for me its better that they don't respond.

After all...just good company to have a beer and some laugh its very easy to find.

Actually online, that is what it means....sex

Nothing wrong with that at all if that is what you want. It is easy to say what you want but I am not really surprised to hear you are having difficulty in finding it. In my opinion most women want commitment from a guy, and apart from offering a good time together, yours does appear to fall short of that. I am not sure any romantic relationship would survive a straight talk about each keeping their own independence.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

good luck in your search...if you are not seeking a wife or a nun, the remaining population of women is quite large...large enough to have many whose libido has not received the last rites...and who are self confident consenting adults who experience no day after guilt trauma, or require a commitment promissory note in advance...no statistics just personal experience...cheers

Your talking about friends with benefits.just be around th bush.I have guy are just friends.

Having someone who actually gives a crap about you as a person is vastly better. All time spent with someone who is just out to entertain themselves, as you say you are, is time lost to the better situation.

I suggest that you accept that while there certainly are people in the world who want the callous sort of lifestyle that you do, that you aren't going to convince people with entirely different values to switch to your mode, by trying to sell them on the idea that "casual sex equals freedom."

Maybe be more clear about what you're looking for, might help to find it. First you say you want friendship, true friends bladiblablar. Then it turns out you don't want that at all, you just want to get laid by someone you sorta kinda like.
Regular dating sites are not really the right place for that, there's sex dating sites. You might be better off there.

Couldn't agree more.

Friendship! However after year it should be a commitment of monogamous dating! I have a online friend for over 3 yrs who lives in the USA! Not from mingle , we. met elsewhere and he said he is serious about me! I think on-line men lie a lot!

Intimate encounter on dating sites means you are just looking for sex... wham, bam, thank you ma'am ... and most women won't respond to that.

But as you said it is very easy for you to find good company to have a beer and some laugh, you don't need to join dating sites then. Just visit your local pub and enjoy your beer and have a good time. Good luck.

You just cintradicted yourself from your original post.
When i want good company i just call my friends. Some of us go watch movies.
Othrrs of us go enjoy a game of pool. Others go out for dinner and conversation.

They are out there. But your looking at the wrong spot.

ummm....I think it depends on knowing someone's agenda up front. I have no intention of marrying but I find no end of men wanting to marry. But that doesn't upset me. Why does it upset you?

Friendships take time to develop. If you use friendship as "code" for wanting no strings intimate encounters some of the women you meet may not want that same thing.

And some might. They want their freedom. But want to have sex too.

in one of my threads : men cannot really be just friends with women they are attracted to

And were seldom friends with ones that were not attracted too.
Unless put together by work or some other activity.