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I overheard at the coffee shop yesterday (paraphrased):
"You only think my questions so personal because you think your person so questionable." Oh NO...NO...NO! Another couple of triggers.. -Why do you "always"....? -Why are you being so defensive? Any examples of better language to use? |
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Yeah, try 'Your problem is...' that always
leads somewhere fast :-) |
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Yeah, try 'Your problem is...' that always leads somewhere fast :-) Lmao! Stinger. Impotence (misspelling/word intended) for escalation. |
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It's not me, it's you!
Or should that be the other way around 
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I overheard at the coffee shop yesterday (paraphrased): "You only think my questions so personal because you think your person so questionable." Oh NO...NO...NO! Another couple of triggers.. -Why do you "always"....? -Why are you being so defensive? Any examples of better language to use? An example of better language would be... "When you __________, I feel __________". It leads to a less defensive reaction and takes responsibility for your own feelings. |
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My go to is, "You suck! Kiss my azz!"
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and after that
"So, sex is out of the question? " always works. |
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You're paranoid
I don't mean you Beach, I mean one could always use that phrase |
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It's all ok. No offense taken. I may be a bit paranoid. |
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How's your sister?
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?" 
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?"
That's not as bad as saying Is she single
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?"
That's not as bad as saying Is she single
 I've actually been asked that 
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?"
That's not as bad as saying Is she single
I've actually been asked that
Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?"
That's not as bad as saying Is she single
I've actually been asked that
Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night
Krissy 
Where do you get those sort of ideas from? Youngsters of today 
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?"
That's not as bad as saying Is she single
I've actually been asked that
Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night
Only if you are a guy ...Seriously though, my sister is great! It just a little irritating when a date seems more interested in your sister...or other women for that matter!
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How's your sister?
Even worse would be "Is your sister pretty?"
That's not as bad as saying Is she single
I've actually been asked that
Then comes the big No NO of asking if you and your sister are available on Saturday night
Only if you are a guy ...Seriously though, my sister is great! It just a little irritating when a date seems more interested in your sister...or other women for that matter!
ooooo yeah didn't think of that
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I'm right.
You're wrong. Now..let's eat. |
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Lot of things to fan the flames or at least start a slow burn for sure.
Always interesting how people say how they hate drama but they slice and dice with words with the best of them. |
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Lot of things to fan the flames or at least start a slow burn for sure.
Always interesting how people say how they hate drama but they slice and dice with words with the best of them. |
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