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Topic: making the first move
Dynamite Joined Sun 06/11/17 Posts: 68	Wed 06/14/17 06:38 PM
You'll know beautiful it will just happen you'll have an Earle where you can't hold back any longer

Twintidbits24 Joined Tue 07/28/15 Posts: 825	Wed 06/14/17 10:32 PM
Someone has to make the first move eventually, or lose out on finding that one true love. I have lost out on alot of possible relationships because I was to shy to approach my attended lady. I often wonder what would have happened if only I stepped up to the plate. So now I focus on just being myself and if I am attracted to someone I approach with a smile and say hi, if she shows interest then let's see what happens after. No harm, no foul. I also would like to add that this is 2017, and its time the ladies also take the initiative and make the first move. Why do us men have to do all the work. Lol. I second the motion....Lolzzz

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Wed 06/14/17 10:44 PM
You'll know beautiful it will just happen you'll have an Earle where you can't hold back any longer epiphany?

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Thu 06/15/17 05:33 AM
Every pursuit we consider worthwhile in this life is a RISK, from engaging in relationships, to having children, to starting your own business to travelling or migrating to a new country. These all involve HUGE risks,whether it be to our wallets or our hearts. Yet people actively choose to take these risks everyday. Ive taken several risks that have resulted in disappointment or rejection, but I took the risk on people or things that I consider to be WORTH IT . If a guy shows himself to be unique, compatible in areas that matter to me, INSPIRATIONAL and (there is NO EVIDENCE of him being repulsed by me), then in my mind , it doesnt matter if he rejects me. I consider him WORTH the RISK,based on the information available to me at the time. Make that first move, the moment your mind and body agree that that person is worth the risk!

pual22 Joined Tue 06/13/17 Posts: 1	Thu 06/15/17 06:20 AM
Nice write up

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Sat 06/17/17 05:56 PM
Every pursuit we consider worthwhile in this life is a RISK, from engaging in relationships, to having children, to starting your own business to travelling or migrating to a new country. These all involve HUGE risks,whether it be to our wallets or our hearts. Yet people actively choose to take these risks everyday. Ive taken several risks that have resulted in disappointment or rejection, but I took the risk on people or things that I consider to be WORTH IT . If a guy shows himself to be unique, compatible in areas that matter to me, INSPIRATIONAL and (there is NO EVIDENCE of him being repulsed by me), then in my mind , it doesnt matter if he rejects me. I consider him WORTH the RISK,based on the information available to me at the time. Make that first move, the moment your mind and body agree that that person is worth the risk! ^^^ nice one peggy

descaboy Joined Fri 11/04/16 Posts: 8	Mon 06/19/17 12:30 PM
generally man does the first move but as a man that's something I was never really confortable with. In the past generally my best female friends were the one to make first contact. Everybody is different.

johnlucas222 Joined Fri 06/16/17 Posts: 2	Tue 06/20/17 02:00 AM
Hello nice meeting you on here,i really want to know more about you....

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Tue 06/20/17 07:03 PM
an offer of friendship is a first move but if its accepted at face value only its heart breaking. sometimes being honest at the very start can be short and sweet and on the other side short and painful too. so making the first move is really dang if you do and dang if you dont

imamramadhan27 Joined Sat 06/24/17 Posts: 10	Sun 06/25/17 04:48 PM
you forgot them, think future is Will the best..