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Topic: Why people rely on dating site to find something that they c
jeofandjeph's photo
Thu 04/27/17 08:01 AM
Why people rely on dating site to find something that they can't find in social life??

krissy55101's photo
Thu 04/27/17 08:04 AM
And your reason for being here is ... ?

msharmony's photo
Thu 04/27/17 08:05 AM
sad if they do

however, they also use it as an ADDITIONAL venue for meeting people, which is quite likely to increase the odds.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 04/27/17 09:10 AM
Could be many reasons. They might not be comfortable socially in real life, could be fake or cheating, could be anything. It is their reasons. I don't use online to date. I am the opposite and meet IRL

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Thu 04/27/17 10:18 AM
It's probably due to real life shyness, awkwardness, or lack of a local dating pool if they live in a rural area. I cannot emphasize enough how strongly I feel about the link between internet and the death of social skills.

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Thu 04/27/17 04:15 PM
Why people rely on dating site to find something that they can't find in social life??

Seems like the question answers itself.

Otherwise it seems kinda like asking "why people rely on google to find something that they can't find at the library or in the yellow pages or randomly wandering around town."

NeonMidnight's photo
Thu 04/27/17 04:17 PM
because my life is too busy

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Thu 04/27/17 04:26 PM

Why people rely on dating site to find something that they can't find in social life??


I don't know... maybe because they have availability to millions of people on the web as opposed to the few in their town...maybe?


Datwasntme's photo
Thu 04/27/17 04:33 PM

Why people rely on dating site to find something that they can't find in social life??


you make a profile that can be seen by many more then you can see in real life ... i don't often bump in to people that live close to me in another town , or for some over sea's etc etc etc

its up 24 / 7 unlike us weak humans that need stuff like sleep , food , etc etc etc

unlike real life you can tell they are single (or at least that the % is better cause they say it here)

just to name a few


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 04/27/17 04:56 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 04/27/17 04:58 PM

sad if they do

however, they also use it as an ADDITIONAL venue for meeting people, which is quite likely to increase the odds.

Why is that sad? I didn't use it as an additional venue, I used it as my main/only venue. And it worked.
If you live in an area where ppl's mentality doesn't suit yours, internet and dating-sites are an ideal option.
Nothing sad about it, it's quite beautiful and great to have that option. My love life would've been doomed without it.
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 04/27/17 04:58 PM

Why people rely on dating site to find something that they can't find in social life??

Exactly for that reason: you can't find them in social life. If you can't find them, you look elsewhere...

no photo
Thu 04/27/17 08:11 PM
What is this "social life" thing of which you speak?what

Thexiam2's photo
Thu 04/27/17 08:53 PM
Some people have no social life

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 04/28/17 12:39 AM

It provides another way to meet people and gives the opportunity of learning more about each other before you decide if you want to meet. You do need to be mindful of the risks and always meet for the first few dates during the day time in very public places.

abilzacky's photo
Fri 04/28/17 02:24 PM
nice

no1phD's photo
Fri 04/28/17 04:02 PM
Why rely on dating sites.?..

Hmmmm... let's see !..go to a friends Barbecue where maybe there's three..
Prospects worth dating..

Or go online where there's hundreds of prospects worth dating...

Kind of a no brainer....lol

habibi_pinay's photo
Fri 04/28/17 05:04 PM
I think bcoz of due to busy work and working long hours makes you no time for social life like me and the other way for you to mingle and communicate is through meeting someone from online date. It's fun and interesting to meet someone from different cultures and exchange thoughts and opinions. And if you're lucky it would be more exciting if you meet that person in real life :wink: Good luck and all the best for everyone!

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 04/28/17 06:29 PM
Because it is a great way to develop a relationship with superficial acquaintance from the real world or meet even more people you have something in common with first in tame Mingleland where there are great moderators .

I have time for a relationship what I don't have time or desire to do is drag out that early dating process that is expensive and much more uncomfortable that chatting by email while I can do chores, spend time with my pet, or lets get real wear comfortable clothes.

drg201's photo
Fri 04/28/17 10:11 PM
I like meeting new and interesting people that I wouldn't have access to otherwise. I even find some of the scammers interesting

WorldWarZeke's photo
Fri 04/28/17 11:03 PM
Like everything online it's convenient. Meet people while at home relaxing in your pajamas.

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