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Topic: Successful relationship
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Fri 04/21/17 02:31 PM
All who are looking for relationship, define, what successful relationship means to you.

What are you expecting from relationship? What makes it successful and happy?

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Fri 04/21/17 03:22 PM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 04/21/17 03:24 PM
One where there's plenty of laughs and you die before it's over bigsmile drinker

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Fri 04/21/17 03:53 PM

One where there's plenty of laughs and you die before it's over bigsmile drinker


I like that, funky waving

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Fri 04/21/17 03:53 PM
To start off with, having a successful relationship, you should both feel you can be yourselves.

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Fri 04/21/17 04:20 PM
All who are looking for relationship, define, what successful relationship means to you.

Desired perpetuation.


What are you expecting from relationship?

Whatever expectations are developed in/by/for the relationship.

What makes it successful and happy?

Successful and happy people.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 04/21/17 04:22 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 04/21/17 04:23 PM
Commitment! Successful relationships are 50 percent now days!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 04/21/17 05:09 PM
You complement each other, you accept each other as you are, you don't judge, you love and respect, you aren't co-dependent, you both got your own thing going in life outside of the relationship, you got good healthy communication.
You support and nourish each other.

Funzy65's photo
Fri 04/21/17 05:20 PM
Edited by Funzy65 on Fri 04/21/17 05:23 PM
GOT IT...They say .." A PICTURE CAN SAY A THOUSANDS WORDS "
It can be TRUE.

Well, I do believe in 4 rules in a good relationship.
May I add, ..That's if you get back the same.:wink:
" Trust, Respect, Loyalty and of course, COMUNICATION ".


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Fri 04/21/17 05:20 PM

You complement each other, you accept each other as you are, you don't judge, you love and respect, you aren't co-dependent, you both got your own thing going in life outside of the relationship, you got good healthy communication.
You support and nourish each other.

crystal please say you have a brother even if you dont plsssss... lol

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Fri 04/21/17 05:28 PM


You complement each other, you accept each other as you are, you don't judge, you love and respect, you aren't co-dependent, you both got your own thing going in life outside of the relationship, you got good healthy communication.
You support and nourish each other.

crystal please say you have a brother even if you dont plsssss... lol

Hihi, sorry.... No brother...
flowers

Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 04/21/17 05:30 PM
I don't know.
I obviously have never had one because I am single at 55 years old.
How about one of you fine ladies come and show me?

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Fri 04/21/17 05:49 PM

I don't know.
I obviously have never had one because I am single at 55 years old.
How about one of you fine ladies come and show me?

not alone there tom lol

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Fri 04/21/17 05:59 PM
I am very heartened by seeing so many people say something other than "I get to have good sex fifteen times before I ditch them for the next one" or some such.

To me, the only measure of success in anything I would call a romantic relationship (to differentiate between what we are after here, from work and politics), is that it continues.

Given my own experiences, the one most important thing (which has so far been lacking) is that both people are in the relationship to be in the relationship with each other, rather than to accomplish some personal goal, or fulfill some one-sided set of desires.

That's a long way of referring to what some might call "commitment," but which I have seen that it has to be a very specific KIND of commitment.


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Fri 04/21/17 07:57 PM

All who are looking for relationship, define, what successful relationship means to you.

What are you expecting from relationship? What makes it successful and happy?


Hi sip, I'm not really looking but I'm hoping that I could fall in love again... fat chance huh? lol

ook, for me a successful relationship is when two people are happy together.. they are loyal to one another, respect each other, and they have each other's back. And love each other til death do they part.


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Fri 04/21/17 08:23 PM


All who are looking for relationship, define, what successful relationship means to you.

What are you expecting from relationship? What makes it successful and happy?


Hi sip, I'm not really looking but I'm hoping that I could fall in love again... fat chance huh? lol

ook, for me a successful relationship is when two people are happy together.. they are loyal to one another, respect each other, and they have each other's back. And love each other til death do they part.




I feel the same way. I wasn't going to post anything because like Tom, I apparently don't know, will be 55 in a week and I am single, so obviously, it hasn't happened yet. But if it were to happen, I believe for it to be successful there needs to be loyalty, respect, and a commitment to honor their love through good times and not so good times, not treat it as a disposable relationship. Also very important is communication. You can have all the love in the world for each other, but if you can't communicate, there's not much of a chance that you will grow together or understand each other.

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Fri 04/21/17 11:04 PM
When your happy, I want to be happy with you. Share your joy so I can be there too.

When you are sad, I want to be there with you. Not because I want to be sad but because you being sad makes me sad and if I can be there maybe I can help you not feel so sad anymore.

If you are bored, I will be bored with you. Together we will explore all the exciting things we find to be bored about.

If you are hungry and I am not I will find you food because when you eat it makes me happy to see your satisfaction.

If you are tired, let me watch you sleep. Your peace brings contentment to my soul.

If you are angry, I will listen and care and help you figure out what to do about it. Then I will help you realize when the anger has passed.

I will touch you with love and ever so gently. I will scratch your itch, rub your sore spots and kiss your lips. My hugs will be full and lasting.

My calm love will melt away your stress and allow you to shine thru.

Seeing you fills my heart with joy and every moment with you fires a spark within my soul.

All that and more and it is shared between us.

THAT, is what I call a successful relationship!

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Fri 04/21/17 11:07 PM

When your happy, I want to be happy with you. Share your joy so I can be there too.

When you are sad, I want to be there with you. Not because I want to be sad but because you being sad makes me sad and if I can be there maybe I can help you not feel so sad anymore.

If you are bored, I will be bored with you. Together we will explore all the exciting things we find to be bored about.

If you are hungry and I am not I will find you food because when you eat it makes me happy to see your satisfaction.

If you are tired, let me watch you sleep. Your peace brings contentment to my soul.

If you are angry, I will listen and care and help you figure out what to do about it. Then I will help you realize when the anger has passed.

I will touch you with love and ever so gently. I will scratch your itch, rub your sore spots and kiss your lips. My hugs will be full and lasting.

My calm love will melt away your stress and allow you to shine thru.

Seeing you fills my heart with joy and every moment with you fires a spark within my soul.

All that and more and it is shared between us.

THAT, is what I call a successful relationship!

lovelovelove

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Sat 04/22/17 01:12 AM

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Sat 04/22/17 06:10 AM
same or similar morals, values, and goals

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Sat 04/22/17 12:11 PM

same or similar morals, values, and goals



That would defiantly help ...

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