Topic: Need guys advice
shouse76's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:03 PM
Ok I talked to a guy from here for a month on the phone, then we met. Talked a little more, then all of a sudden no returned calls or texts. I thought I was being blown off. I hear back from this guy like 4-5 days later than he had this family emergency. But I left msgs that were pretty mean. Now, I know that it wasn't me( I hope), and want to continue to talk with this guy, but he basically told me to have a nice life. I think there was a spark there when we met. I mean I did make a mistake and did aplogize, but thought he didn't have the balls to say peace out to my face....so what do I do now....I AM INTERESTED IN HIM!!!

madamx7316's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:05 PM
ohhhh hard one...well if he cant see past it and accept your apology...i dont know...maybe in time he will cool off...i wish you luck dear!!!

fortsmithman's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:07 PM
Edited by fortsmithman on Wed 11/21/07 07:08 PM
Hard one to answer try for a bit more if he won't have anything to do with you then find someone else. Thee are plenty of guys out here who are looking.

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:08 PM
If he doesn't understand where your coming from, and you did already apologize to him. I would move on, you don't have to grovel...you know.

There are plenty of other guys...in the sea!!!

Good luck............

irad8you's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:09 PM
2 words......red flag.

no photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:09 PM
well if he told you to have a nice life then i would have to say take that advice and move on there are plenty of men out there that will gladly take his place just next time dont leave mean messageslaugh laugh good luck to you
peace
ace

Totage's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:10 PM
Sorry, it just wasn't meant to be. Unless, he calls you back, I would say just move on. flowerforyou

Sorry frown

knightd427's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:11 PM
I hate to say it, but there isn't really anything you can do. If he doesn't want to accept your apology and give you a second chance, it'll never go anywhere. You can't make a person forgive you.

Troyd879's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:12 PM
I agree leave it up to him and move on.... It was his decision not yours... I also agree with the red flag comment... Which is open to interpretation...

shouse76's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:13 PM
Ok guess I git it. I guess I'm movin on...


Thanks for the advice!!

spfdvol's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:13 PM
O.k. here's some advice that may help you. First off if this guy is interested in you, and if he decides that no matter what happed, and that you apolozied to him. Then take things one day at a time, and see where it goes from there. Without you telling me what was said cause that I don't wish too know, but sounds like what I read that at one time you two liked each other. But sometimes misunderstands can be a terrible thing, but my advice too you is this just take it one day at a time, and let him cool off, and see how things go from there. When two people get into a heated agruement things can never be solved only can two people whom are calm and collected with there thoughts can only then a true decisions, or truece be met. My advice just be patient it'll work out if he likes you enough he'll come back talking too you again, but don't rush cause then he'll just turn away cause his feelings was hurt in this one.

wouldee's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:13 PM
the family emergency seems to work well with strangers.

That's my pick!!

flowerforyou :heart: bigsmile

98stanger's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:16 PM
u know what. heres my advice. your a ebautiful woman get over him. if it was me even if it was a family emergency id still call u and tell uwhats going on if i really liked u. if u was a bootie call na i wouldnt. seriously you have a nice smile and your drop dead beautiful. dont let some guy make u feel bad. trust me. i have been played and heard every game in the book. dont be brokenheart just smokin and do some of thisdrinker and show this beautifullove u have. yea im a dork bite me

98stanger's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:17 PM
oh yea and i cant spelldevil

no photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:18 PM
people can and will accept your apology and forgive you but that doesnt mean they are going to put themselves in the position to be subjected to it again ..smokin

Troyd879's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:19 PM
I can relate to that one for sure...

ISLANDKING's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:20 PM
give it up move on...wanna call me? lolz

fortsmithman's photo
Wed 11/21/07 07:30 PM
Remeber there are guys here who will have no problem in trying to take the other guys place.:smile: :wink: