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Topic: why do people cheat
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 04/15/17 10:38 AM Edited by no1phD on Sat 04/15/17 10:43 AM
told to me by a very dedicated ladies man(dedicated to being a ladies man) because they CAN he added that, for men, it generally doesn't have to be anything except they feel they deserve everything they want and if no one knows noone will be 'hurt' for women, it generally is because they feel neglected in some way ,,,not my words, but straight from the ladies man ..sooo.. just to recap if a man does it it's just because he can. ? But if the lady does it it's because she feels neglected from her man..?.. Wow.. sounds like no matter what it's the man's fault..hmmmm...lol don't forget 'generally', there are no absolutes and no, a woman's cheating is not a man's fault, it's her choice if she is neglected or feeling neglected she should be grown up enough to discuss it and work on it with her man,, or to leave...period. ..yes.. as always communication communication.. It is a key to a healthy relationship

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 04/15/17 02:35 PM
generally,,,

Givemeanangle Joined Tue 04/11/17 Posts: 23	Sat 04/15/17 02:47 PM
One is they insecure in their own relationship.

Givemeanangle Joined Tue 04/11/17 Posts: 23	Sat 04/15/17 02:47 PM
One is they insecure in their own relationship.

luicer Joined Tue 03/28/17 Posts: 1	Sat 04/15/17 03:00 PM
Hi

kingkingz Joined Sat 04/15/17 Posts: 4	Sat 04/15/17 06:18 PM
I think women would usually have a different reason from cheating than men. Females do it for emotional reasons while some men do it because of fun or uncontrolled desires

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sun 04/16/17 04:00 PM
I think women would usually have a different reason from cheating than men. Females do it for emotional reasons while some men do it because of fun or uncontrolled desires Almost. I think women would usually have a different reason from cheating than men. Females do it for financial reasons while some men do it because of fun or uncontrolled desires

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Sun 04/16/17 07:00 PM
I think women would usually have a different reason from cheating than men. Females do it for emotional reasons while some men do it because of fun or uncontrolled desires Almost. I think women would usually have a different reason from cheating than men. Females do it for financial reasons while some men do it because of fun or uncontrolled desires What? So you think women cheat because they need money? Dude, that's prostitution. I don't think so.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 04/16/17 07:13 PM Edited by no1phD on Sun 04/16/17 07:15 PM
How does that saying go.. the mind and body is strong but the flesh is weak.... Sometimes when that thing you crave the most desire the most is put in front of you... you can't help but give in to temptation....yes it is wrong.. And there is a price to pay.. for giving into the Flesh. ... but if you are truly committed to the one you love.. In that moment of weakness comes along with it guilt.. which then takes away all pleasure.... and if that is the case then. . forgiveness can be. Found.. .. because know one woman or man.. Is free from the desire of the flesh

Cheeriosoo Joined Sat 04/09/16 Posts: 584	Sun 04/16/17 10:15 PM
How does that saying go.. the mind and body is strong but the flesh is weak.... Sometimes when that thing you crave the most desire the most is put in front of you... you can't help but give in to temptation....yes it is wrong.. And there is a price to pay.. for giving into the Flesh. ... but if you are truly committed to the one you love.. In that moment of weakness comes along with it guilt.. which then takes away all pleasure.... and if that is the case then. . forgiveness can be. Found.. .. because know one woman or man.. Is free from the desire of the flesh I agree till the forgiveness. This is because I strongly believe, once a cheater, always a cheater.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4976	Mon 04/17/17 01:48 AM
why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life. When the love has gone, because to cheat on someone is to hurt them, and you don't hurt the one you love. The relationship has become loveless in my opinion and is at an end when that happens.

LOVEITFOURU Joined Wed 04/19/17 Posts: 1	Wed 04/19/17 02:06 PM
WELL IM LOOKING FOR OTHER REASONS. I LOVE MY WIFE BUT SHE SEEMS OUT OF TOUCH WITH ME DONT WANT TO TALK. NO AFFECTION. IM SO LONELY I KNOW. BUT FOR ME ITS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX. I NEED A FEMALE FREIND TO JUST TO GET THE AFFECTION IM NOT GETTING AT HOME. SHE HAS MEDICAL COND. THAT CAUSE NO SEX DRIVE. MEDS THAT CAUSE HER TO BE EMOTINLESS. SHE WONT TALK ABOUT THIS THINKS EVERYTHING IS OK.

krissy55101 Joined Thu 12/01/16 Posts: 1163	Wed 04/19/17 02:18 PM
WELL IM LOOKING FOR OTHER REASONS. I LOVE MY WIFE BUT SHE SEEMS OUT OF TOUCH WITH ME DONT WANT TO TALK. NO AFFECTION. IM SO LONELY I KNOW. BUT FOR ME ITS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX. I NEED A FEMALE FREIND TO JUST TO GET THE AFFECTION IM NOT GETTING AT HOME. SHE HAS MEDICAL COND. THAT CAUSE NO SEX DRIVE. MEDS THAT CAUSE HER TO BE EMOTINLESS. SHE WONT TALK ABOUT THIS THINKS EVERYTHING IS OK. Do you yell at her like you yell at us?

NotPay4Play Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 5333	Wed 04/19/17 03:30 PM Edited by NotPay4Play on Wed 04/19/17 03:31 PM
WELL IM LOOKING FOR OTHER REASONS. I LOVE MY WIFE BUT SHE SEEMS OUT OF TOUCH WITH ME DONT WANT TO TALK. NO AFFECTION. IM SO LONELY I KNOW. BUT FOR ME ITS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX. I NEED A FEMALE FREIND TO JUST TO GET THE AFFECTION IM NOT GETTING AT HOME. SHE HAS MEDICAL COND. THAT CAUSE NO SEX DRIVE. MEDS THAT CAUSE HER TO BE EMOTINLESS. SHE WONT TALK ABOUT THIS THINKS EVERYTHING IS OK. Do you yell at her like you yell at us? Probably... Smh.

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Wed 04/19/17 04:27 PM
why do people cheat _____________________________________________________________________ Because they like to have sex with someone other then their spouse... that's why. Been that way since.. well.. forever.

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Tue 06/27/17 07:06 PM
How does that saying go.. the mind and body is strong but the flesh is weak.... Sometimes when that thing you crave the most desire the most is put in front of you... you can't help but give in to temptation....yes it is wrong.. And there is a price to pay.. for giving into the Flesh. ... but if you are truly committed to the one you love.. In that moment of weakness comes along with it guilt.. which then takes away all pleasure.... and if that is the case then. . forgiveness can be. Found.. .. because know one woman or man.. Is free from the desire of the flesh Neah. That whole "I'll blame my flesh" thing has always been a lie, for all except the truly mentally ill or neurologically infirm, or the very immature. It logically requires either that the person claiming that excuse declare that they are not responsible for their own behaviors (and should therefore be under professional care at all times), or that they have put so little thought into the decisions they make from one moment to the next, that their commitment to their official partner was every bit as meaningless and shallow as the choice they made later to trample on that commitment. Hardly a persuasive argument that could lead to being forgiven, in my opinion.

maybwecan Joined Sun 09/23/12 Posts: 15804	Tue 06/27/17 07:39 PM
hmmm...wonder what the definition of a "normal" person is...

Integrityis1st Joined Sun 07/24/16 Posts: 9956	Wed 06/28/17 07:03 PM
Why do so many people lack integrity?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Sat 07/01/17 11:13 AM
No morals! Or low morals!

iszha Joined Fri 06/30/17 Posts: 7	Sat 07/01/17 11:28 AM
They cheat because they are not contented with what they have..just wondering,,what the hell you will u get if u will cheat?!!!