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Topic: Guys, is it that hard to talk to a woman?
iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 06:47 AM
Just want to know your thoughts.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/10/17 07:00 AM
Its easy if you re with a cute kid or a dog . Great way to break the ice :)

iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 07:09 AM
Its easy if you re with a cute kid or a dog . Great way to break the ice :) Yes, a big warm smile and that's the cue.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 04/10/17 07:12 AM
Occasionally it is difficult to talk with women. Like if there's no interests mentioned, hard to get conversation flowing. Now if out in public, well depends. I'm more of a shy person, and when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm mostly just looking for the items I need and want to get out of the store.

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Mon 04/10/17 07:13 AM
Just want to know your thoughts. yes.. especially when they are yelling at you... hard to get a word in.

iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 07:15 AM
Occasionally it is difficult to talk with women. Like if there's no interests mentioned, hard to get conversation flowing. Now if out in public, well depends. I'm more of a shy person, and when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm mostly just looking for the items I need and want to get out of the store. How would you approach someone you like if you're a shy person?

iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 07:17 AM
Just want to know your thoughts. yes.. especially when they are yelling at you... hard to get a word in. Maybe you've done something terrible that made her mad.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 04/10/17 07:24 AM
Occasionally it is difficult to talk with women. Like if there's no interests mentioned, hard to get conversation flowing. Now if out in public, well depends. I'm more of a shy person, and when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm mostly just looking for the items I need and want to get out of the store. How would you approach someone you like if you're a shy person? When I have tried to approach a woman who I've been interested in. Usually smile and just say hello. She either responds back by smiling and saying something in return. Or just gives me the cold shoulder and nothing in return.

TwiztedCheese Joined Mon 04/10/17 Posts: 1	Mon 04/10/17 07:32 AM
Even a very confidant man will become brain dead if he is really interested. But if you give him something to talk about that he knows about (cars, sports, his job) then he will loosen up. We often don't know what to do or say when face to face with our percieved dream girl.

iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 07:34 AM
Occasionally it is difficult to talk with women. Like if there's no interests mentioned, hard to get conversation flowing. Now if out in public, well depends. I'm more of a shy person, and when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm mostly just looking for the items I need and want to get out of the store. How would you approach someone you like if you're a shy person? When I have tried to approach a woman who I've been interested in. Usually smile and just say hello. She either responds back by smiling and saying something in return. Or just gives me the cold shoulder and nothing in return. Sorry to hear that. But know that not all women are rude.

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Mon 04/10/17 07:37 AM
Just want to know your thoughts. yes.. especially when they are yelling at you... hard to get a word in. Maybe you've done something terrible that made her mad. Wouldn't be the first time

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/10/17 07:38 AM Edited by peggy122 on Mon 04/10/17 07:40 AM
How would you approach someone you like if you're a shy person? I think you have to find something to break the ice , like asking for directions for somewhere or commenting about customer service in a store , or asking them whats the best brand in a particular product if you are at a place that sells things . Or if you re in a grocery, you can say that you ve run out of ideas of simple things to cook and if they have any suggestions You need a line that requires more than a yes or no answer

iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 07:40 AM
Even a very confidant man will become brain dead if he is really interested. But if you give him something to talk about that he knows about (cars, sports, his job) then he will loosen up. We often don't know what to do or say when face to face with our percieved dream girl. I know that it takes a lot of courage to approach someone. Anyway, a smile could mean something.

iammavis29 Joined Thu 07/03/14 Posts: 1046	Mon 04/10/17 07:50 AM
How would you approach someone you like if you're a shy person? I think you have to find something to break the ice , like asking for directions for somewhere or commenting about customer service in a store , or asking them whats the best brand in a particular product if you are at a place that sells things . Or if you re in a grocery, you can say that you ve run out of ideas of simple things to cook and if they have any suggestions You need a line that requires more than a yes or no answer I think the guys here should learn from you Ms. Peggy

robycamara Joined Mon 04/10/17 Posts: 1	Mon 04/10/17 07:52 AM
Hallo

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 04/10/17 07:55 AM
I usually just go up to women in the grocery store... and show them two brands of condoms... ribbed and unribbed.. and ask them which do they prefer... then I ask them do they prefer flavored lube over regular non flavored lube.... if that doesn't get them talking to me...well... it's probably for the best..lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33264	Mon 04/10/17 07:59 AM
I usually just go up to women in the grocery store... and show them two brands of condoms... ribbed and unribbed.. and ask them which do they prefer... then I ask them do they prefer flavored lube over regular non flavored lube.... if that doesn't get them talking to me...well... it's probably for the best..lol May I suggest going for Large condoms, and a brand that clearly displays LARGE on it? That might help things along a bit

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 04/10/17 08:02 AM
Occasionally it is difficult to talk with women. Like if there's no interests mentioned, hard to get conversation flowing. Now if out in public, well depends. I'm more of a shy person, and when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm mostly just looking for the items I need and want to get out of the store. Hi Scoob At the grocery store, a greatvway to start a conversation would be to smile and ask about the difference in a product or something like that. Like if you're shopping in the olive oil section you could ask if they recommend one over the other.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Mon 04/10/17 08:03 AM
I usually just go up to women in the grocery store... and show them two brands of condoms... ribbed and unribbed.. and ask them which do they prefer... then I ask them do they prefer flavored lube over regular non flavored lube.... if that doesn't get them talking to me...well... it's probably for the best..lol May I suggest going for Large condoms, and a brand that clearly displays LARGE on it? That might help things along a bit and never let it be known that you turn them inside out, so they a ribbed for YOUR pleasure.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 04/10/17 08:04 AM
I usually just go up to women in the grocery store... and show them two brands of condoms... ribbed and unribbed.. and ask them which do they prefer... then I ask them do they prefer flavored lube over regular non flavored lube.... if that doesn't get them talking to me...well... it's probably for the best..lol May I suggest going for Large condoms, and a brand that clearly displays LARGE on it? That might help things along a bit ..ohh..no . That would just be too obvious... And scream needy...lol.. I wouldn't want them to think I have a big head..lol.. a swelled head...lol.. I'll let them find that out on their own..mmhmm