Topic: would you want your spouse going out of town fa the weekend
craigsmac's photo
Sun 04/09/17 04:24 AM
hmmmm not working but chilling

two4mirth's photo
Sun 04/09/17 04:31 AM
Encourage her to go and have a great time. It's all about trust, and if you don't offer it, you shouldn't expect it from her in return.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/09/17 05:18 AM
Hummm last I remember you don't own them.. They are free to go where they want to....

If you can't trust them then there is no reason to be with them...

But then I have never been in a relationship where the other felt they need to get away from everyone including me~~~whoa

We all need our alone time in order to get things in perceptive at times. And if that happens to be their way then you either learn to deal with it or move on.... spock

peggy122's photo
Sun 04/09/17 05:42 AM
I like my partner to feel free and relaxed so I wouldnt mind, but I think if the relationship has any history of cheating or trust issues, social weekends apart are a really bad idea

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Sun 04/09/17 05:53 AM
I'd encourage her to have a great time. Control issues are a sign of insecurity.

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Sun 04/09/17 06:00 AM
If a person wants to have affairs they'll find a way no matter how tight a reign you keep on them. When there's no trust and mutual respect, there's no real love.

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Sun 04/09/17 06:35 AM
No trust.. no relationship.

TMommy's photo
Sun 04/09/17 08:05 AM
you know your partner and her past and her uh behavior


of course, it is not your place to forbid her to do anything

and if you think you hold that kind of power

you might be surprised


but if you do not trust her

then you might want to ask yourself why

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 04/09/17 08:11 AM
No wouldn't mind, although it does depend on context. The why, the frequency of something like that happening etc.
If a spouse wants/needs to bugger off on his own real often, I'd say something isn't right relationship-wise.
If it's something they want to do that's important to them and doesn't interest me all that much, or he rather share it with a mate, sure thing.
I want the same freedom.

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Sun 04/09/17 08:22 AM
Be weary of the pies she may bring home from the "bakery"...tongue2

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 04/11/17 08:26 AM
Has a lot to do with trust and what they are doing.

And in some cases who they are spending the weekend with/where.

I would not be real happy about a guys campout where I know a couple of the guys, nortorious cheats, would probably bring a bimbo along/out to the campsite even though I trust my partner I don't trust them.

Did I see it as a favor for my ex to go to his "gross" sisters house alone YES.

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Tue 04/11/17 10:54 AM
Why not.