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Topic: Men vs Women challenge..Please Come in !
Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 04:17 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sun 03/19/17 05:09 AM
Wow...I'm not an expert, just TAPPING the BEAGLE :wink:

My QUESTION TO ALL IS :.." WHICH LINE FITS YOUR CATEGORY " ??

( Providing the title of the line can be sufficient if you wish not to explain it in more detail/s )

With the popularity of Tinder ( iphone app ), it may seem like guys are only interested in a sure thing: a girl who will come over and get naked without much more than a hello and strategically angled d*ck pic. Guys don’t want to actually try anymore, so if you make it hard for them, they’ll move on to the next girl without a second thought. While there are a lot of guys like that (and girls too, for that matter), the kind of guy who actually wants more than sex is probably interested in a girl who isn’t necessarily easy to win over. That doesn’t mean you have to play hard to get, it just means you are hard to get— because you have standards and you’re proud of it.

MEN LIKE THE CHASE.whoa
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Of course he isn’t going to turn down a girl who does all the work, but at the same time, he probably won’t stay interested for long. If he has to put in work, he’ll have the chance to consider how much he really wants you, and then he’ll be a lot more invested in the outcome.

MEN ARE COMPETITIVE.
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He most likely knows he could pick up a girl without breaking a sweat if he wanted to, but where’s the fun in that? If it’s too easy, it’s not as satisfying. If you make it hard for him, he’ll automatically want it even more.

YOU AREN’T INTERESTED IN JUST ANYONE WHO GIVES YOU A LITTLE ATTENTION.whoa
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Unless he’s looking for a quick no-nonsense hook up, he’s probably not going to be interested in a girl who has no standards whatsoever. Knowing what you want is half the battle, and having the strength to stick to it is a turn on.

YOU’RE IN DEMAND.whoa
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If he knows he has to step up his game to get your attention, he’s going to assume it’s because you have plenty of other options. That will tap into his competitive streak again, because he’ll want to be the guy who comes out on top.

IF HE WINS YOU OVER, HE’LL FEEL LIKE HE ACCOMPLISHED SOMETHING.whoa
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Going back to the competitive thing, guys enjoy working hard for something they want. We all set goals to push ourselves past our comfort zone, and if he pursues you even though you’re not a sure thing, it’s because he wants to prove his own worth.

YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.whoa
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Since you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single if that’s what it comes down to. That probably means you’re independent and you can take care of yourself, and which guys doesn’t love that?

YOU DON’T STOP CHALLENGING HIM/HER AFTER THE CHASE IS OVER.whoa
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Just because you finally decided to give him/her a chance doesn’t mean it’s suddenly going to be smooth sailing. He/she wanted you because you’re smart and you keep him/her on his/her toes, and he/she knows that’s not going to go away once you’re together. You’re the type of girl/guy who doesn’t just attract guys/girls, but knows how to keep them interested.

LOOKS ONLY GO SO FAR.whoa
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Not every attractive girl has a personality to match. While looks might be important for the night, if you aren’t a well rounded person he’s going to lose interest. It’s like going to a movie that gave away all the funny parts in the trailer.

THE THINGS YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR ARE WORTH HAVING.whoa
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It’s just human nature to think things that aren’t always easy are more worthwhile. Relationships in general aren’t easy, but we work for them anyway, so we might as well choose someone who’s worth the effort.

YOU KNOW WHO YOU AREwhoa
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. It’s hard to miss a girl/guy who knows exactly what she wants and is unwilling to compromise who she/he is to get it. You have no intention of settling for less than you deserve, meaning you’ll bring out the best in any guy/girl you’re with. At least if he/she wants to keep you, that is.
WORKS for BOTH GENDERS

Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 04:29 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sun 03/19/17 04:32 AM
The lines which fits me best is/are, ..glasses

" THE THINGS YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR ARE WORTH HAVING "

and,

" YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE "

whoa

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Sun 03/19/17 04:41 AM
Edited by Integrityis1st on Sun 03/19/17 04:48 AM
Seriously you come up with this off the top of your head whoa
(Strategically angled) rofl

Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 04:45 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sun 03/19/17 04:45 AM

Seriously you come up with this off the top of your head whoa

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NO...It was spinning inside my head, I had to let it out laugh

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Sun 03/19/17 04:49 AM
Edited by Integrityis1st on Sun 03/19/17 05:06 AM


Seriously you come up with this off the top of your head whoa

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NO...It was spinning inside my head, I had to let it out laugh
Still reading it over. laugh

Comfortable being single. Do i have to say it (i love :heart: me) and the last two. happy

Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 04:56 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sun 03/19/17 04:56 AM



Seriously you come up with this off the top of your head whoa

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NO...It was spinning inside my head, I had to let it out laugh
Still reading it over. laugh

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Sorry 4 the lengthy novel conclusion/s blushing

And I believed I was short with this one

rofl

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Sun 03/19/17 08:32 AM
My QUESTION TO ALL IS :.." WHICH LINE FITS YOUR CATEGORY " ??

All of them, and none of them.

All of them, to some degree, based on the stereotypes.
e.g. "MEN LIKE THE CHASE."

None of them, based on the descriptions following the lines.
e.g. "you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single...That probably means..."

And if you're going to copy paste something, you might want to provide a link
http://www.bolde.com/challenge-makes-sexier-think/

mzrosie's photo
Sun 03/19/17 08:42 AM
^^^ you go Sir Tom
rofl

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/19/17 08:46 AM
This one fits me best... When in a relationship I believe in giving 100% both ways and lots of communication. If I can not have that then I'm just as happy single~~ I'm not in for the money, I have a job my own house & car paid for as well as all the contents... I want someone that can enhance my life not what is in his pocket but what he is willing to give another emotionally~~~smitten


YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.biggrin
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Since you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single if that’s what it comes down to. That probably means you’re independent and you can take care of yourself, and which guys doesn’t love that?

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Sun 03/19/17 04:42 PM
I am a combo of "I am not just interested in anyone" and "I know what I want". Six foot leggy blonde in a bikini delivering me a beer? Hey...I can be in that category of "He also believes in wishful thinking". laugh

Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 06:35 PM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sun 03/19/17 07:28 PM

My QUESTION TO ALL IS :.." WHICH LINE FITS YOUR CATEGORY " ??

All of them, and none of them.

All of them, to some degree, based on the stereotypes.
e.g. "MEN LIKE THE CHASE."

None of them, based on the descriptions following the lines.
e.g. "you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single...That probably means..."

And if you're going to copy paste something, you might want to provide a link
http://www.bolde.com/challenge-makes-sexier-think/

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Pfft PROFESSOR :tongue:

You didn't finish your CRITICISM Conclusion laugh
Look who is talking about copy & paste from other
topics, old comments, forums or links...YOUR DA HONEST MAN
I know your style , and stereotype B.S
That's because WE HAVE MEET BEFORE on
A SOCIAL SITE FULL OF STOPID FISH Tomy boy :wink:
....NO DOUBT ABOUT YOU..Never mind .
YUP, I WAS THERE WATCHING OVER YOU TO :wink:
L.M.A.O .. rofl rofl rofl

Quote:
None of them, based on the descriptions following the lines.
e.g. "you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single...That probably means..."
Unquote:

" That probably means..." ????...MEANS WHAT ?? :wink:
Couldn't finish all the copy & paste line ?? rofl
I know, chit happen :tongue:


Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 06:36 PM

^^^ you go Sir Tom
rofl

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Smile sister laugh

Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 06:36 PM

This one fits me best... When in a relationship I believe in giving 100% both ways and lots of communication. If I can not have that then I'm just as happy single~~ I'm not in for the money, I have a job my own house & car paid for as well as all the contents... I want someone that can enhance my life not what is in his pocket but what he is willing to give another emotionally~~~smitten


YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.biggrin
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Since you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single if that’s what it comes down to. That probably means you’re independent and you can take care of yourself, and which guys doesn’t love that?

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Good for you ...Same here ...Almost laugh

Funzy65's photo
Sun 03/19/17 06:39 PM

I am a combo of "I am not just interested in anyone" and "I know what I want". Six foot leggy blonde in a bikini delivering me a beer? Hey...I can be in that category of "He also believes in wishful thinking". laugh

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Like the old saying...Every Man can dream laugh

navygirl's photo
Sun 03/19/17 11:53 PM
Edited by navygirl on Sun 03/19/17 11:53 PM
YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.
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Since you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single if that’s what it comes down to. That probably means you’re independent and you can take care of yourself, and which guys doesn’t love that?



Yep, this is me. Its good as I am usually to busy with my hobbies, work, and community service to have a relationship anyways.

Funzy65's photo
Mon 03/20/17 02:27 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Mon 03/20/17 02:29 AM

YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.
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Since you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single if that’s what it comes down to. That probably means you’re independent and you can take care of yourself, and which guys doesn’t love that?



Yep, this is me. Its good as I am usually to busy with my hobbies, work, and community service to have a relationship anyways.


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Attagirl :thumbsup:

I DON'T BLAME YOU...Same here laugh
I still have my part time work,( Keeps me out of trouble with bad woman's ), blushing

Occasionally volunteer to my local wildlife rescue shelter and town community.
Yet still have my sanity, comfort zone and serenity.
( A good lady friend WON'T HURT ME to start with, will be PERFECT )
If anything good happen, then, ( Next can be the following chapter )
whoa ..That's when the hot water bottle can burst rofl

Plus, I have my birds, few chickens and a handsome rooster laugh ,
and my garden to keep me busy all year round.

Thanks for coming by " navygirl " waving

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/20/17 10:42 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 03/20/17 10:43 AM
Just one line? I'm gonna be greedy and take two, haha.


YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.whoa
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YOU DON’T STOP CHALLENGING HIM/HER AFTER THE CHASE IS OVER.whoa
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Nothing over the top, but I don't like things to get boring. So yeah, I like to keep him on his toes, but in a good sense, not in a threatening sense so to speak. So not like "if you don't do... then I'm gone!" There has to be trust that you're in, both feet, and not constantly threatening to leave.
But wouldn't want him to doze off. tongue2 Besides, I like teasing. And he likes me doing it. Well, most of the time blushing :angel:
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Mon 03/20/17 11:31 AM


My QUESTION TO ALL IS :.." WHICH LINE FITS YOUR CATEGORY " ??

All of them, and none of them.

All of them, to some degree, based on the stereotypes.
e.g. "MEN LIKE THE CHASE."

None of them, based on the descriptions following the lines.
e.g. "you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single...That probably means..."

And if you're going to copy paste something, you might want to provide a link
http://www.bolde.com/challenge-makes-sexier-think/

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Pfft PROFESSOR :tongue:

You didn't finish your CRITICISM Conclusion laugh
Look who is talking about copy & paste from other
topics, old comments, forums or links...YOUR DA HONEST MAN
I know your style , and stereotype B.S
That's because WE HAVE MEET BEFORE on
A SOCIAL SITE FULL OF STOPID FISH Tomy boy :wink:
....NO DOUBT ABOUT YOU..Never mind .
YUP, I WAS THERE WATCHING OVER YOU TO :wink:
L.M.A.O .. rofl rofl rofl

Quote:
None of them, based on the descriptions following the lines.
e.g. "you aren’t willing to settle for just anyone, you must be fine with the idea of staying single...That probably means..."
Unquote:

" That probably means..." ????...MEANS WHAT ?? :wink:
Couldn't finish all the copy & paste line ?? rofl
I know, chit happen :tongue:




Did you get him?? lolzzz......biggrin

Twintidbits24's photo
Mon 03/20/17 12:02 PM

YOU DON’T STOP CHALLENGING HIM/HER AFTER THE CHASE IS OVER.
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I want to keep the fire always burning as much as possible....

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THE THINGS YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR ARE WORTH HAVING.
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Reason: Relationship is a lifelong process...It's a Give and Take....Fight for someone who is worth keeping but drop when it is already hurting much....

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YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE
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I know my worth....and I will surely be supportive to my partner through ups and downs.....

Every person is unique, you just have to be who you are....no need to be well-rounded....no one is perfect....

Funzy65's photo
Mon 03/20/17 09:20 PM

Just one line? I'm gonna be greedy and take two, haha.


YOU’RE COMFORTABLE BEING SINGLE.whoa
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YOU DON’T STOP CHALLENGING HIM/HER AFTER THE CHASE IS OVER.whoa
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Nothing over the top, but I don't like things to get boring. So yeah, I like to keep him on his toes, but in a good sense, not in a threatening sense so to speak. So not like "if you don't do... then I'm gone!" There has to be trust that you're in, both feet, and not constantly threatening to leave.
But wouldn't want him to doze off. tongue2 Besides, I like teasing. And he likes me doing it. Well, most of the time blushing :angel:
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TEASER YOU laugh That's okay, as long as not looking to argue :wink:

Looks like the lucky devil has free entertainment assigned to him
rofl

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