Topic: Why Is It So Hard...
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Mon 11/19/07 03:49 PM
omg bear this guy takes the cake on looser/jerk....


He told a co worker that he would treat her to lunch and pulled a condom out of his wallet and said your place ok?

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Mon 11/19/07 03:55 PM


I feel your pain girl. Today I was chatting with a customer at work.. great looking, sweet.. etc etc... he is married

Grrrr


I guess its true what they say, "all the good guys are either married or gay"


just would like to say, we good guys are out here....
the problem i'm finding is, the good girls seem to live west coast, and the good guys seem to live east coast...

anyone else noticing that or is it just my imagineation?

maybe not literally, but what i mean to say is it's easy to find someone good... but finding someone good withing reasonable distance of you, can be hard.

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Mon 11/19/07 03:57 PM
I agree... I live in the midwest and have found one decent guy so far and he just wants to be friends. grumble Grr...

Dawn... that guy sounds extremely creepy... Im surprised the girl at your work didnt want to press harrassment charges after that stunt he pulled.

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Mon 11/19/07 04:00 PM
Yea.... I did a long distance relationship.. the guy turned out to be a huge loser.... slept with my sister a few days after we split up.

I know a great guy is out there. We will find each other one day... You guys just should enjoy life.. much better that way lol

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Mon 11/19/07 04:06 PM

Yea.... I did a long distance relationship.. the guy turned out to be a huge loser.... slept with my sister a few days after we split up.

I know a great guy is out there. We will find each other one day... You guys just should enjoy life.. much better that way lol


totally, dragonl0ve makes a good point, and i personally know first hand how hard it can be to change the mind set to thnk that way... the trick is to find a passion. A very good very smart friend of mine, once told me, if you find a passion, you will fill more fullfilled. He was right. Obviously i want to meet someone, kinda why i joined the site, but i've concentrated my energy and effort into somethign i CAN control, and put my passion into that, and i've been MUCH happier ever since... a relationship will come when it comes, it never comes when you want it most!

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Mon 11/19/07 04:09 PM
I could ask the same think how come I cant find a nice woman whos not a freaking psycho

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Mon 11/19/07 04:11 PM

I could ask the same think how come I cant find a nice woman whos not a freaking psycho


i been through more than my fair share too... now i'm getting a bit more picky, and been single for a record long time now haha!

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Mon 11/19/07 04:11 PM
Nice guy Right here:smile:

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Mon 11/19/07 04:11 PM
Seems to be a common complaint Silver.... What makes us psycho? I might be one and not know it :p

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Mon 11/19/07 04:14 PM

Seems to be a common complaint Silver.... What makes us psycho? I might be one and not know it :p


OOH OOH let me awnser this one...

in one of my past experiences... i think the girl who i got into a big fight with, and told her not to bother calling me, then showed up at my work standing in front of my car so i couldn't pull out of my parking spot.... that made HER a good example of a psycho!

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Mon 11/19/07 04:18 PM
Hmmm, standing in front of pissed off guy in a 2 ton machine... sounds like a moron to me lol.

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Mon 11/19/07 04:21 PM
ya'd think wouldn't ya? *shakes head*

*throws arms in air*

sometimes i'm actually at a loss for words.... which for ppl who know me, know that's rare lmfao! later guys, time for me to go get some food!

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Mon 11/19/07 04:32 PM
That girl was just plain stupid and obviously crazy about you... sounded like someone who couldnt handle rejection well.

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Mon 11/19/07 04:39 PM
well and i know that she was crazy about me,... but i couldn't handle her... her habbits, her tendencies, her behavior... it simply was not going to work in the long run... can nobody an say i didn't give her a chance... i gave her 5 months of a chance... i almost cut it off after 3, and she begged for another chance, so i did... thinking i reacted hastly... but nothing changed.....

then that happened heh.

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Mon 11/19/07 05:31 PM
well you attract them first of all its like my new girl she told me i piss her off. and i told her she loves it. and she blushed and said so. you cant resist them they may seem nice but later on you give them the title asshole sorry but im saying the truth

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Mon 11/19/07 05:36 PM
natrully you are attracted to guys like me every time a so called jerk comes up to you. when does a nice guy come up to you very rarely but it happens so in your mind you think this is what i should go for and when a nice guy comes up its kind of a turn o

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Mon 11/19/07 05:40 PM
now if you go to places where nice guys are at you might find one try libaries poetry bars these are calm places nice guys are here tons so really you not looking

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Mon 11/19/07 05:42 PM
huh

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Mon 11/19/07 05:45 PM

ya just gotta get picky Tx and screen them first..laugh

We hired this super gorgeous guy a few weeks ago and he seems like a real sweeetheart,... except that he has hit on every single woman in our office already.
He asked me out too... but he said we would have to go somewhere...that his girlfreind would'nt know anyone. huh


huh Are you kidding?? That's ridiculous!! What a man whore!

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Mon 11/19/07 05:47 PM
YAYA my texas friend is back! Yeah I couldnt believe what she told me. That guy is such a jerk!