Frist time when I saw him so I liked him. We met yesterday. But I guess he doesn't want to have a girlfriend cause he likes to travel. And he traveled a lot. He will stay in VN for 6 months then he will leave. He said " I'm sure I see you soon ". Do you guys think I need to tell him that I like him or not?

Not if you long term relationship, he kind of sounds flaky.

Obviously ......bcoz not too feel guilty life long that you did not tried even. Ask him irrespective of answer ....All the best

He agreed to meet you, and he told you that he travels a lot and that he does not have a girlfriend, for him to do that he must like you. I don't think you need to tell him you like him, enjoy the friendship during his time visiting your city, but if you are looking for a long term relationship it seems to me that you need to look elsewhere in my opinion.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck.

Thanks. But almost I message him first. Friendship is better. I don't know why his fingers were shuddered when he was eating or using the phone. My niece said he was shy. I know he doesn't have a gf. My cousin told it to me. When we met. He ate and drank same me. Often asked me everything. I'm sure he's a good man.

No

Need to tell him? Depends on what you mean by 'need.' Chances are very low, that telling him will cause him to alter his plans. But you might get him to explain in more detail, why he said this.

YOU might 'need' to tell him, as someone else said above, just so that you can know that you did try.

You might want to figure out exactly WHY you like him enough to want to tell him so, first. Make sure it's actually HIM you want, and not just someone LIKE HIM.

Thank you. I will think what everyone said.

hii

If I read you well you are assuming he doesn't have a woman in his life.
Be sure.
It will be nice to be nice close friends with him so that you know him better. Communicate with him often when he is in and out of town. This could reveal a lot about him.
Finally, show you like him by your actions not words...for actions speak louder than words. Make him want to come to your city---you have the power--feminine power.

1. Why does he travel? Is it due to his job or is it for fun and leisure?
> If due to his job, where is his home city?
> Is his job position that has him traveling permanent or could he possibly be restricted to an office someday? Where is that office?
> How often and for how long is he usually in his home city?
> Could he be playing the field in all the different cities and you just happen to be the girl in your town?
> When he arrives in your town, does he immediately contact you?
> Could he have a family in his home city?

2. Are the qualities that make him perfect for you qualities that are unique or common?

3. Could the reason he isn't willing to commit to you as his girlfriend other than he travels a lot?

4. It seems that he is not very excited to be with you if he says "I'll see you soon: knowing that he will be in town for the next 6 months.

5. Are you as important to him as he is to you?

6. If you tell him you like him, do you suspect he may want to end the relationship?

7. Telling someone you like them is not a difficult thing to do. Is your trepidation based on something that you sense from him but have not admitted to yourself?

8. You just met in real life yesterday. You like him right now but you really don't know him well. Perhaps you need a few more face to face meets to really determine if you actually really like him?

9. Are the qualities that you are attracted to in him superficial?

10. When it is all said and done, you should do what is best for you. I hope you use good judgement and look at all aspects of him and his personality before you commit your heart to him.

> Have you seen him angry?
> If he drinks have you seen him drunk?
> Have you seen him disappointed?
> Have you seen him very excited about something?
> Has he shared info about his family with you?
> During the 6 months he will be in town will you need to set an appointment to see him?
> Did he actually tell you where he is staying? Did you look for it?
> Has he called you today?

I wish you all the luck but I also hope you use your head.

These are all good questions for any new relationship

Hiee

I guess this is a fake site... since last two days I m trying to get in touch with ... but nothing is happening

What a long list of questions----longer than the United states medical licensing examination
(USMLE )questions

just tell the guy you like him and take it from there. Why make it a big deal

I second that .. you're not going to say that you love him, right? However, you don't have say anything, if you're not sure yet, just give him a sign - a little wink .. you women are so good in this

I decided not tell him. Cause He doesn't care of me. I will be quiet. It's better

Haha. When we went out. I tried to say something but he thought we are friends. Not more. If he is interested in me then he will write me but he didn't ;-)

hy