there are so many people in our lives who come and go to serve the purpose which they are destined to become for us. But we only need one to make us feel complete. YOU complete me...have you ever said that to anybody ?

Thanks, but I don't really know you and never will, so I will decline.


That implies you have no free will to change the nature of any relationship, that you are kind of a victim to relationships rather than (at least partly) responsible for what they become.

Or that they are completely external to you and don't really affect you except how you objectively choose them to.


...is what people would like to be true because it would be easier.


No.
It's a movie saying that really has no bearing on reality.
It's cheap poetry meant to make the feeble minded swoon.

Who you are is partly defined by all of your relationships, no matter how small.
All relationships and groups you are a part of help define your identity.
All relationships and groups you are a part of are all a part of and influence each other, at the very least through you.
You change one, you change them all, you change yourself, to different degrees.

One cannot complete you without the existence of the others in the background doing their thing for you if they've been consistently there, historically.

Remove any of them, that will have an effect on you and your relationship.
Add any, it will have an effect on you and your relationship.

No one person can complete you unless you are the type that completely takes other people for granted, and/or are completely solipsistic and find someone willing to be a perfect extension of your ego.

Mmmmm..."Serve the purpose" sounds interesting, Miss Sceptical.

Because we all have different history, I say for me, this feeling of completeness with a partner does not apply. I am complete and happy as I am. A partner would add texture, as in introduction to new interests and conversation and hopefully, in time, love.

it never appealed me beyond Jerry McGuire

I always felt complete and was attracted to others who were the same

I did want to feel like we complemented each other and inspired each other to be our best though

What would a burger be without the bun.

a round steak?,,,,lol

Well, as Abraham Hicks says "When someone tells you 'you complete me', run for the hills!"
I agree.
You are already complete and if you feel incomplete without a partner you best work on getting there before finding one.
Unless you want a co-dependent relationship.

BAM!!! Exactly what you said.

Dusty Springfield

As the new year progresses, make time to reflect upon what it's going to take for you to enjoy vibrant health and a sense of balance. Keep in mind that taking a look ahead may begin by taking a look within.

That is deep, and good!

It' the ending of an article I just read in the paper by Debbie DeAngelo. Can't take credit. Good read, she knows what she's talking about.

Hello am interested in you ,,can i have your cell phone number to tell you more about me

Sure. Would you like my AMEX card number as well? You'll probably also my SSN.

H2O, you promised me your SSN AND retirement funds... *Wah*

Oh boy!!!.. yes I'll talk to you.. do you happen to have a Western Union office close by?

You don't have to tell me the story.. I know it. You are in Africa because your entire family was wiped out in a horrific accident.. except your 95 year old blind Grandmother, who your are trying to get back to the States. But you are short some money. Nobody ever really finds out what they were doing there, in Africa, but what difference does it really make?


I feel for you!!.. how much do you need?

My memory must be failing me...

..yes.. when I was 7 years old I said it to my teddy bear...lol