Online Dating Blues

Online Dating that’s what I’m Hating
Never thought I’d be doing this
Searching for my friend
Don’t even know where to begin
This is all new to me
Who knows the rules?

The games that are played online
They talk and then they stop
They only want to window shop
Thinking they know who you are
By printed words
From distances so far
It’s cold and judgmental in here

Watch and wait for contact
To bold then…
You’re a stalker
To shy then…
You don’t care
Do you have a web cam?
Who do you think I am!
What ever happened to just friends?

Tired of being lonely
Someone has to start
Looking for my one and only
Words to fill my heart with joy
A glance and I shiver with excitement
A touch to feel safe and content
Want to hear the music in my soul?
Touch me deep from within your heart

Longing for the way it was
Not understanding this new cyber sea
How can we know
Without eyes connecting
Seeing the response to our voices
Only one way to see inside
So why does everyone want to hide

To be anyone you want
And afraid to be themselves
Only to be disappointed
Bearing your soul to a stranger
In hopes they will care
Only to find no one is there
Online Dating that’s what I’m Hating

On a positive note
Look at what I wrote
Just words running
Through my head
My fears, dreams, and confusion
lacileo signing out

very nice laci

really good hon

very nice and true

Excellent job

thanks girls....guess men don't agree Oh yeah they are the ones hidin...LOL

sorry bigdog. your not hidin luv ya

And your sooooo, right, it's hard and brutal.

Wonderful piece, I enjoyed your writing, thanks for sharing what we all know to be true....

Very nice laci...yes, it is true you don't know what's in the brains of this box, so we just take a chance. There are guys out there that stoop so slow as to ask if you have a web cam yes, those are idgets that only think with one thing and they carry it in their hands. Unlike some of us who think with our hearts. I wish you luck and happiness.

thanks all. I am glad some of you know where I was comin from.


Think I got it figured out now, but sad to say think it makes us all more skeptical and a little harder.

Awesome.. hit feelings that I think everyone has come across a time or two...

Stay strong.

hey L.am I nieve for trusting this man with my heart?he never asked for a web cam or anything like that.he just wants me to be honest,thats all.
so,should I give him a chance?

odessy ya gotta trust your heart. there are no guarantees in life. Honesty is a good thing as long as he too is being honest.

thanks LAMOM glad ya liked it

All I wanted was to be your friend,

All the while your heart is luring me in

And now it's much more than just firends

We will be lovers in the end


32 days and 5hours and 16min and counting till I hold you in these arms of mine

Seeing a rainbow of many Hues
Feelings are beginning to sprout
As the green grass is born anew
Brightens my world with yellow
Cause your such a funny fellow
Reds that cause a fire
Deep within my soul
The blue of your eyes
As you touch me deep inside
And the clear blue sky
Awakening a new day a new life
Knowing I’ve found my pot o’ Gold
Always needing you to hold

31 days til our eyes meet

25 days left

Just an update as to how I NOW feel about online dating

I've found a man who never hides
He opens up and draws me inside
Without this cyber sea we roam
A Love like this I'd never known
To all who search for love on here
Be careful please, but have no fear
Be honest and true and they will find
The true beauty that sleeps within your soul
And come to you and fill your heart's hole

May GOD Bless you and lead you on your journey

24 days 7 hours 22 min and 14.8 sec left