sorry to hear that I really am. I hope grandfather ( sorry my heritage being Native American and German) Looks upon you. Hey if ya'll get board you can go to my profile and hear my first recorded song, I am not the original artist but it is a start. Dedicate it to me EX

Hey Big M, I know how it feels I moved to Ohio to take care of my dad left everything a great job friends my home. allot of bad memories to. But I started talking to her here on JSH we talked e-mailed sent IM's and met for coffee in a public place, then went for a drive as I was lost she was showing me around met her cousin that day. I have since met her Mother and Father and Brother had a great day rode the four wheelers had lunch hung out with her and her kids, first time in a longtime I smiled all day. I am singing more again, Just happy, Now all I can do is wait to see where this all leads. I know what I want in my heart. I wish each and everyone to find the happiness I have so far and that it lasts you a life time.

Respect

Thunder Bear

Hey Thunder...is there a link on your profile? I went there and didn't see anything...maybe I'm blind.

I have a theory I'm working on about this subject.

I think often "nice guys" come off as lacking in confidence or too respectful to take charge when these particular girls want someone to. I think a balance needs to be manageds so you can be nice and respectful, yet not seem like a wuss.

I think you're right in a way Joshy. You need to show women that you are both caring but not a rag doll. Women use guys who are pushovers as nothing more then toys and use them for stuff.

could have sworn I put it there try this ya'll tell me what you think http://no-evo-hd.com/LIVE003.MP3

Well I think I will be okay. Thanks for listening. It just goes back to the theory i have that nice guys finish last. I will move on and hope to find another woman who will like me for me regardless if i am a nice guy and if I am sexy or just average looking.

Just be u bro she is out there just keep your eyes open so you do not miss her. My theory is all the bad relationships will lead the good one.

Of course Nice guys Finish last, we have to make sure she finishes first.

Sorry, I'm a horrible person...

I don’t think nice guys finish last I think we just finish we know who we are and in the end we find what we are looking for we just have to learn patience. I did not just get my Harleys I had to work for them, I did not get the job I had in jax handed to me I had to work for it. Therefore, I think nice guys just work harder I believe we are programmed to want instant gratification we as a society forgot what it is like to have patience.

Brilliant Thunderbear, I could not have made a better point.

Patience is a virtue, they say...

Don't worry what the other people are doing, sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind, the Race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself.

Okay, I'm going to be honest and I don't imagine it will be received well.

I don't think women are looking for a jerk per se, but like men, women generally want someone physically attractive to them. Most or many jerky men look really good.

wow Thunder...that's really good. Best of luck to you!

Thanks Thunder and Josh for the advice. I understand what is said and have not thought about it in those ways.

Gustavaaaaaaa... you're not suppose to telllll......

wouldee~
heehee. Sorry...

Hey bro I dont mind trying to sound wise just my two bits, is all. You Mrs Right is out there so dont worry about the Mrs Right Now.

One common misconception is that good guys are boring. Rest assured, not all of us are.
What constitutes a good guy? What about a bad boy?

kidatheart70 asks: What constitutes a good guy? What about a bad boy?

The answer to that will get me into trouble.

However, in my experience, the two are not mutually exclusive.

Gustava I try not to be a jerk work hard at it and do not seem to have issues meeting women the issue is meeting the right ones. I do not think I am anything special most times describe myself as a broke down ole cowboy. Place my EX on a pedestal did anything and everything for her. She left for her abusive ex husband so I go on, life has changed and every day looks better.