I own a very large company and seem to only attract gold diggers. Of course I'll take care of my woman but I dont want that to be the reason why we are together.. So how do you spot a gold digger?

Lol.. I like that

When you go out to eat and the check arrives, the gold digger will be the one looking at you like a deer caught in the headlights.

They will be the ones wanting to make your acquaintance
right after you mention just how big your company is.

This is true but I like to be upfront about it so I can try and read them I guess

Where ever there are horny desperate,or horney lonely men, or men
hitting out of their league, rich men, pervs.... you'll find Gold Diggers.

Where ever there is cyber.... there are scammers, trolls & alters.

Unfortunately.... most of all these personalities are literate. So I am not teaching the unspirtual & criminal how to be better at their game by putting it out here.

Think with the right head & be realistic.
If it sounds or looks too good.
It probably is.

Good luck to you

Thank you

They might respond to you better if you withhold some things,
so as not to appear to brag :-)

Tis a great idea to learn to read the signs..when I was dating
I would nearly always want to do something that played a game,
a physical game, a boardgame..because when push comes to shove,
their true personality emerges...and sometimes it can be a
real shocker :-)

(PS: I liked the way you worked out why you mention the biz :-)

Yeah youre right hun thank you very much

maybe when she pays more attention to the gold you're wearing rather than the interesting things you have to say?

i must say that you're attracting people who would need someone like you and not just want you. try the appropriate approach to get attention from the kind of people you would really want to be. and dont ask me coz i dont know too lol

Thank you hun

Seriously money don't mean nothing to me. Now total lack of, that's an issue.

Perhaps you attract them by what you put out there...

if you're wearing Armani, and Hermes and showing up to the coffee house in a lambo....the immediately fawning all over you...run and run fast.

Or you could intentionally carry something like an Hermes hanky and find an excuse to pull it out...the ones that recognize its Hermes.....run lol

When you assume that most every woman is a gold digger, you will likely attract them.
I personally detest the word as men apply it so loosely, as if every woman is one.
But maybe change your perspective, start knowing and feeling that there are plenty of great women out there, so you will start attracting different types of women. You always get what matches your own vibration, not pun intended.
Stop behaving and thinking like a (rich) proprietor, start behaving like a normal man looking for love.
And don't tell ppl right away that you have your own business so you get the chance to feel how you feel around a woman, and how she feels and reacts in your company.
Be a gentleman, pay for drinks, but don't have a huge wad of money in your wallet or don't get out the credit card that only rich(er) people have.
Don't go to totally ridiculous expensive posh restaurants or cafes. Take her to normal places.
Start paying attention to what you do yourself, are you maybe inclined to show off you're doing well yourself? WOuldn't surprise me, as it's totally masculine to want to do that, esp when wanting to impress a girl. But in this case, it could not be so handy. So monitor your own actions and behaviour and routines. Impress her for sure, but do it differently, by being you. Leave the proprietor at home. The right woman would want to know you, not a proprietor, so give her you.

When you like her and do tell her about your company pay heed to her reaction. Don't think genuine interest is 'gold digging'. Don't let your worry ruin a possibly good thing.
Keep dating her if you like her and keep feeling, sensing. Men are usually far better at picking up ill vibes than women (we tend to overthink!). Your own instinct is your best guidance in this, so don't let negative feelings cloud it. Trust your instinct and gut feelings, ignore your fear and worries in order to do that.
If it feels like it walks like a duck, talks like a duck (not literally hopefully, lol), then it usually is a duck.
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Offer something other than gold and see if they are more interested in that

I had a neighbor who had a tough life and worked hard to become a successful business owner. His life experience turned him into a bitter and grumpy man.

I bought him a coffee few times I bumped into him, hoping it might cheer him up a bit. I didn't assume that sharing a coffee would turn into a ritual.

He NEVER got me a coffee, nor I expected it. But if we bumped into each other in that coffee shop he tried to avoid being close to the register. He would ALWAYS excuse himself, go looking for newspapers or washroom or something. He would get his coffee and pull a chair to join me with the usual how are you doing hun, weather I invited him or not and than rant, rant, rant and rant some more mostly about woman...

His favorite rants were about gold diggers.BTW, I have never seen him in that coffee shop with a woman. Any woman.

After a while I begun avoiding him and moved to a different coffee shop.

I wonder what was that gold diggers rant all about? Maybe it was just his way of cutting any expectations in advance. Even a cup of coffee was too much to expect.

This experience made me a bit skeptical about men who are sweet talkers, calling ladies hun while complaining about gold diggers and shaking over spending $1,25 for a coffee someone other than them might enjoy.

P.S.

Once I payed for both because he RUN to a register to stand behind me and than looked helplessly at me while a lady at the register waited for him to dig out ten cents. Ewww!
Next time he asked if he can pay by CC. He held his customized platinum card so everyone can see it while charming a register lady:
"Sorry, I run out of change hun."
He never left a tip.
And THAT guy complained about gold diggers all the time till most of other neighbors moved to another coffee shop.
Who is he complaining to now? LOL

Usually their outfit gives them away...miner's safety hat, etc.