Topic: putting a ring on it..?
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Tue 10/25/16 03:23 PM


Forever would be nice, but I know how hard a relationship can be.....so I will settle for a right now, and see how each day goes....as for marriage, no thx, done that twice already.
..soo.. just looking for companionship?


For now, yes

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:26 PM

Lol.ok.. quick little question..
When you date someone does it always have to be going somewhere..
That is!.. are you looking for the ring on your finger..all the time.. are do you date just to keep from being lonely.. . Just to have a companion..
. What category do you fit into..?

Dating for companionship not wanting a long-term commitment..?

Or are you looking to have a ring put on it.. very serious about the end of game.?.lol..

Or perhaps you're not certain you're just along for the ride and see what happens..?..

Or perhaps you date just for the fun..
The experience of meeting new people..?..

And has your outlook on dating changed.. perhaps you started off just for fun but now you or more serious..
Minded.. or vice a versa...lol
..
And.. one other thing..lol.. does your age determine.. your agenda..
Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger


Geezzz... you know how to flatter a girl!
I'm crying now... thank you so much!

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:26 PM
I am not necessarily looking for a "ring" or marriage - but I do want something meaningful and lasting. I do not enjoy dating, so it would be really nice if I met someone I could share time with, be exclusive with, grow old with... but the specifics I don't think about much.

Has this changed - yes. When I was young, I was looking for the ring and the family. :)

Things didn't work out quite as I had hoped.


RustyKitty's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:27 PM
even with the best of intentions of just wanting a FB... those darn emotions develop..so, all I am saying, is that,the intention of the relationship is in direct proportion to the development of these 'feelings'.. smitten
ergo things change.. one can start out one way and change..
I would just be happy to be with the someone I want to be with..and be monogamous.
serial dating? not for me, but I guess a way to meet people...


no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:31 PM


Lol.ok.. quick little question..
When you date someone does it always have to be going somewhere..
That is!.. are you looking for the ring on your finger..all the time.. are do you date just to keep from being lonely.. . Just to have a companion..
. What category do you fit into..?

Dating for companionship not wanting a long-term commitment..?

Or are you looking to have a ring put on it.. very serious about the end of game.?.lol..

Or perhaps you're not certain you're just along for the ride and see what happens..?..

Or perhaps you date just for the fun..
The experience of meeting new people..?..

And has your outlook on dating changed.. perhaps you started off just for fun but now you or more serious..
Minded.. or vice a versa...lol
..
And.. one other thing..lol.. does your age determine.. your agenda..
Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger


Geezzz... you know how to flatter a girl!
I'm crying now... thank you so much!
..lol... I just knew that was going to come back and bite me in the arse..lol..of course.. you and all the other ladies on the forums get younger by each passing day... the seasons come and go but the youth and Beauty ... of all you ladies is timeless.... as nature chips away at mountains turning them into sand ...
She looks kindly upon you ladies.... keeping you forever Frozen.. in your youthful yesterday's

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:38 PM
Soo.. it seems as we get older and wiser or expectations become more realistic.... are needs of yesterday are no longer the needs of today..hmm..
Do you think stability and Financial Security play a bigger role in your decision-making

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:38 PM



Lol.ok.. quick little question..
When you date someone does it always have to be going somewhere..
That is!.. are you looking for the ring on your finger..all the time.. are do you date just to keep from being lonely.. . Just to have a companion..
. What category do you fit into..?

Dating for companionship not wanting a long-term commitment..?

Or are you looking to have a ring put on it.. very serious about the end of game.?.lol..

Or perhaps you're not certain you're just along for the ride and see what happens..?..

Or perhaps you date just for the fun..
The experience of meeting new people..?..

And has your outlook on dating changed.. perhaps you started off just for fun but now you or more serious..
Minded.. or vice a versa...lol
..
And.. one other thing..lol.. does your age determine.. your agenda..
Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger


Geezzz... you know how to flatter a girl!
I'm crying now... thank you so much!
..lol... I just knew that was going to come back and bite me in the arse..lol..of course.. you and all the other ladies on the forums get younger by each passing day... the seasons come and go but the youth and Beauty ... of all you ladies is timeless.... as nature chips away at mountains turning them into sand ...
She looks kindly upon you ladies.... keeping you forever Frozen.. in your youthful yesterday's

Phew ... I feel a bit better now! My face is still puffy though, and I need to dry the tears from me eyes. Please hand me the Kleenex. No, wait... I think I'll just wipe 'em dry with my hand!

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:40 PM




Lol.ok.. quick little question..
When you date someone does it always have to be going somewhere..
That is!.. are you looking for the ring on your finger..all the time.. are do you date just to keep from being lonely.. . Just to have a companion..
. What category do you fit into..?

Dating for companionship not wanting a long-term commitment..?

Or are you looking to have a ring put on it.. very serious about the end of game.?.lol..

Or perhaps you're not certain you're just along for the ride and see what happens..?..

Or perhaps you date just for the fun..
The experience of meeting new people..?..

And has your outlook on dating changed.. perhaps you started off just for fun but now you or more serious..
Minded.. or vice a versa...lol
..
And.. one other thing..lol.. does your age determine.. your agenda..
Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger


Geezzz... you know how to flatter a girl!
I'm crying now... thank you so much!
..lol... I just knew that was going to come back and bite me in the arse..lol..of course.. you and all the other ladies on the forums get younger by each passing day... the seasons come and go but the youth and Beauty ... of all you ladies is timeless.... as nature chips away at mountains turning them into sand ...
She looks kindly upon you ladies.... keeping you forever Frozen.. in your youthful yesterday's

Phew ... I feel a bit better now! My face is still puffy though, and I need to dry the tears from me eyes. Please hand me the Kleenex. No, wait... I think I'll just wipe 'em dry with my hand!
..lol.. are you sure?.. you'll be okay I just opened a fresh box if needed..lol

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:46 PM
Yes, I think being financially secure on my own makes me less worried about getting married and being safe - now it's about companionship, feelings, being there for someone, and them being there for me. I am going to need someone to push me around in my wheel chair. rofl

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:47 PM

Yes, I think being financially secure on my own makes me less worried about getting married and being safe - now it's about companionship, feelings, being there for someone, and them being there for me. I am going to need someone to push me around in my wheel chair. rofl
..well.. that's why you have children when you're younger isn't it? LOL

soufiehere's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:48 PM

Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger
hahaha editor :-)
(And4yourinformationIgotawrinklestartingonmyneckthatisstartingtopissmeoff.)

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:50 PM


Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger
hahaha editor :-)
(And4yourinformationIgotawrinklestartingonmyneckthatisstartingtopissmeoff.)
.Ohh.. pish-tosh.. it was probably just the lighting in the room..lol.wink

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:51 PM



..well.. that's why you have children when you're younger isn't it? LOL


laugh

I used to think so - but they might decide to put me in a home.surprised

My oldest is suffering from a failure to launch and the youngest wants a career in film ... I better come up with a plan B.:wink:

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 03:58 PM




..well.. that's why you have children when you're younger isn't it? LOL


laugh

I used to think so - but they might decide to put me in a home.surprised

My oldest is suffering from a failure to launch and the youngest wants a career in film ... I better come up with a plan B.:wink:
..umm.. find a wealthy man..lol... and that brings up another point.. dating For Security... it's no longer enough to look at someone and be attracted to them..now as we get older okay!! I get older..lol..
There tends to be a lot more to picking a date then just... how nice are attractive a person is...hmmm....man.. 5 minutes ago I was happy to go out with somebody for coffee..now.. I have to dig through their financial records..lol

no photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:01 PM
I'm just looking for male companionship at the moment. I don't want something complicated.

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:12 PM
Hmm.. nothing complicated...
That seems to be the issue wanting what you want and then finding it in another person..hmm .. and then when you do finally find that person that's when.. it does start to get complicated... they have this or that but not that or this.. so you begin to compromise...ie. well that's okay if they have a dry sense of humor and you don't.. you can live with that..
But deep down you really can't..
Are they don't like to travel but you do... but they are financially secure..hmm.. finding that perfect someone seems like a fairytale.. The NeverEnding search for your perfect match... or do we just take close enough and try to make it work...God..
That's it I'm joining the monkhood..lol

no photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:22 PM
I'm not perfect, so I'm not looking for perfect....it's impossible to find someone that is going to like everything you like, that's why we should be comfortable with compromise. Having different interests and tastes can add flavour to a relationship, plus you never know you might actually like something you thought you didn't.

Oneec's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:29 PM
If you want a good relationship with a man don't ever ask them for marriage cause it will scare them away lolz...

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:33 PM
Edited by no1phD on Tue 10/25/16 04:33 PM

If you want a good relationship with a man don't ever ask them for marriage cause it will scare them away lolz...
..yes.lol. but I don't think scared is the proper term... it is the taking on of more responsibility... having someone put all there trust into you.... it can be a big eye opener for some..

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:36 PM
I just go moment by moment ... 18 months later still going strong.