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Topic: putting a ring on it..?
inni_dreamz's photo
Wed 10/26/16 09:34 AM
I'm not looking for a relationship anymore. I can't even seem to get a date. At this point, I'd take companionship and see what the hell happens.


Hahahaha, know what you mean!

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 10/26/16 10:51 AM
I am in no hurry to get married.
I am enjoying the way things are. Why complicate things? Go with the flow.

I can't be bothered with the drama that can go with it.
I am 47 years old. I don't have time for it.

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Wed 10/26/16 12:15 PM

Lol.ok.. quick little question..
When you date someone does it always have to be going somewhere..
That is!.. are you looking for the ring on your finger..all the time.. are do you date just to keep from being lonely.. . Just to have a companion..
. What category do you fit into..?

Dating for companionship not wanting a long-term commitment..?

Or are you looking to have a ring put on it.. very serious about the end of game.?.lol..

Or perhaps you're not certain you're just along for the ride and see what happens..?..

Or perhaps you date just for the fun..
The experience of meeting new people..?..

And has your outlook on dating changed.. perhaps you started off just for fun but now you or more serious..
Minded.. or vice a versa...lol
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And.. one other thing..lol.. does your age determine.. your agenda..
Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger





When I date someone First thing I look for is to see if we can become friends.... I think you have to be friends before anything else can happen....so I guess I start out along for the ride to see what happens...

Even though I don't want to get married again at this age I would like to find someone to love and be in a committed relationship with....

However until I find that I wouldn't object to finding a good friend to be FWB....lol

inni_dreamz's photo
Wed 10/26/16 12:26 PM





The only man in the world I'm willing to be FWB's with is Chris Hemsworth. laugh

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Wed 10/26/16 12:52 PM
Too old for that crap now.
Maybe if I was 20 years younger.
He looks like me ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ when I was younger, if only.

inni_dreamz's photo
Wed 10/26/16 01:01 PM
Yeah, I can see the resemblance, Joe

no1phD's photo
Wed 10/26/16 01:07 PM
Soo.. a very wide spectrum of responses.... I guess at the end of the day.. we all just want someone who values us.. puts our interests ahead of Their Own.. and only wants to walk hand-in-hand with us... wherever we may go.... someone to go grocery shopping with someone to watch a movie with.. someone to play footsies with under the covers.....

You would think how hard can that be to find someone..lol... but giving everyone's own personal needs and agendas.. it can be rather hard..
Like looking for a diamond.. in a pile of glass.. hmmm.... but don't give up hope... for every shoe there is a foot.

Could just be a question of either lowering or raising your expectations..
..hmmm... I guess that means I need to lower mine... not going to find a wealthy woman that likes to stay home cook and clean while wearing sexy..lingerie... and thinks the sun rises and sets on me...lol..

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Wed 10/26/16 06:07 PM

Soo.. a very wide spectrum of responses.... I guess at the end of the day.. we all just want someone who values us.. puts our interests ahead of Their Own.. and only wants to walk hand-in-hand with us... wherever we may go.... someone to go grocery shopping with someone to watch a movie with.. someone to play footsies with under the covers.....

You would think how hard can that be to find someone..lol... but giving everyone's own personal needs and agendas.. it can be rather hard..
Like looking for a diamond.. in a pile of glass.. hmmm.... but don't give up hope... for every shoe there is a foot.

Could just be a question of either lowering or raising your expectations..
..hmmm... I guess that means I need to lower mine... not going to find a wealthy woman that likes to stay home cook and clean while wearing sexy..lingerie... and thinks the sun rises and sets on me...lol..






Well Said..... I know I'd like to have someone to do things with.... as well as play tootsies with...lol

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Wed 10/26/16 06:10 PM






The only man in the world I'm willing to be FWB's with is Chris Hemsworth. laugh




OH I'd for sure take him as well any way I could..... That would be a great dream .... because that would be as close as I could get to it...lol.... it would be a nice one though...lol

inni_dreamz's photo
Wed 10/26/16 06:15 PM






The only man in the world I'm willing to be FWB's with is Chris Hemsworth. laugh




OH I'd for sure take him as well any way I could..... That would be a great dream .... because that would be as close as I could get to it...lol.... it would be a nice one though...lol


Nothing wrong with a harmless dream or two :wink:

NotPay4Play's photo
Wed 10/26/16 07:11 PM


uhm..hmmm it would have to be a very cautious let's not read too much into this...wait and see attitude


but that is just me


no ring

on this finger...ever again
..so..hmm.. You Say Never Again.. does that mean you're closed off to the possibility of marriage?


Same here for me. I like to say been there..... Done that.... Got the combat patch.... And not reupping for another tour.... But that's just me.

usernamekels's photo
Wed 10/26/16 09:28 PM
I honestly think age is a huge factor. I know quite a few older women who date and have no intention of getting married again. Their reasoning is they've already been married, had kids etc so they're just dating for fun/companionship

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Thu 10/27/16 05:26 AM
im putting a ring on Thor if he accepts to be my slave lol

inni_dreamz's photo
Thu 10/27/16 08:13 AM


laugh

Annierooroo's photo
Thu 10/27/16 07:48 PM
I'm not sure maybe if a guy sweeps me off my feet.
blushing I have gone from he'll noooo to maybe. Lol maybe I've gone nuts. I don't know. :smile:

jenny37domingo's photo
Fri 10/28/16 12:14 AM
hi I'm single mom from Philippines

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