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Topic: Why need to lie?
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Sat 10/22/16 08:34 PM
Online love exactly what is that?

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Sat 10/22/16 09:01 PM
What about women who cheat on their man ? I have seen cases where a man is immensely in love with his woman ... and does everything he could do to keep her happy .... despite of that he is being cheated by her .... any answer to this ? i would say this is a debatable topic .... even women cheat on their man despite that man being totally faithful to her. Though I agree that proportion of a Man cheating on women is greater than women cheating on man. But yes .... both cases exists .... So i don't see any point of making a big issue of it & that too just one sided. I would say irrespective of gender it is ultimately that human who is cheating, be it a man or a woman. Everyone has their own reasoning & no one has a right to argue on that. If someone is still feeling so strongly about it, just make sure that you dont cheat on your spouse ... :) Be happy n stay blessed all !!

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Sat 10/22/16 09:38 PM
Well not all are same or maybe u do something she dont like thats why she did cheat in u...

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Sat 10/22/16 09:47 PM
True... But even i caught him already he still deny things.... Truths hurt but being lied is more hurt when u trust him and believe he is faithful to u but u find out he's not...

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Sat 10/22/16 09:53 PM
Nice words @blondey111.... Thank you for your opinion and advice about my topic...:)

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Sat 10/22/16 10:00 PM
I dont deny woman are also cheat but for me if u dont feel happy about yoyr relationship why need to cheat then ? Its not easy to break someone s heart but its better to be honest that to lie and keep saying u love your woman or your man even u have someone else already... How do u love a two woman or two man at the same time? How do u manage your time to be with them and your busy life everyday?

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Sat 10/22/16 10:06 PM
True... But being honest is better that to lie... U not just lie to yourself but also you lie to the person who trust you.....

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Sat 10/22/16 10:53 PM
Girl, I understand exactly what you're saying. But not every guy is like that. Let that go and move on. You're a pretty girl and I don't see why you'd have a problem finding someone faithful. You said it's hard for you to trust guys,....well find out who they are first. Build trust...I know it's easier said than done, but everyone has to put themselves out there to find that. It doesn't matter who you are, you have to. If a relationship is truly what you want, then that's what you have to do. If you're not ready to move on, then wait, and give yourself time to heal. It's not fair to the next guy if you don't. But, I hear ya girl....Keep your head up!

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Sun 10/23/16 03:34 AM
Girl, I understand exactly what you're saying. But not every guy is like that. Let that go and move on. You're a pretty girl and I don't see why you'd have a problem finding someone faithful. You said it's hard for you to trust guys,....well find out who they are first. Build trust...I know it's easier said than done, but everyone has to put themselves out there to find that. It doesn't matter who you are, you have to. If a relationship is truly what you want, then that's what you have to do. If you're not ready to move on, then wait, and give yourself time to heal. It's not fair to the next guy if you don't. But, I hear ya girl....Keep your head up!

Thank you and i really appreciate this...:)

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Tue 10/25/16 10:50 AM

gils also do cheat on us!!


Are you crazy? Girls are angels laugh

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Tue 10/25/16 03:04 PM
Guys feel the need to lie not just about flirting and cheating but other things when they don't feel safe to communicate and perhaps feel misunderstood and will go on the defensive. A relationship needs to be built on not just honesty and communication, but acceptance and forgiveness. If a man feels like he is going to get the third degree whenever someone else catches his eye or something he says or does could be misconstrued as 'inappropriate', he will get defensive and will retreat into his man cave and learn that 'being honest and open' will most likely result in the s*** hitting the fan...so why bother?'

I speak from experience having a jealous ex-wife. Even when I did nothing (and I never cheated), I ended up getting grilled and accused and felt the need to defend myself. It is a vicious circle.

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Wed 10/26/16 02:22 AM

Why mostly of the guys need to lie about flirting and cheating? Why they are not satisfy to their girl? Why its hard for them to be faithful? Are you guys happy cheating on your girls who loved you, accept u and appreciate u? Is it fair?


I guess men just.. suck, right?

very true

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Wed 10/26/16 02:30 AM
and please keep the other phone you're using to call the other woman to a place where i couldn't find it..
bc I've found it!!:triumph:
lol

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