I'm looking for a couple of girls to join me for some fun yet although I have come across a lot of profiles suggesting they are looking for similar they seem to be cons.
Any advice?

"I'm looking for a couple of girls to join me for some fun"

I am totally confused here. What kind of fun could a guy and two girls have?

Me too. Totally baffled

You say in your profile Don't try to scam me, I can smell it a mile away, you should be ashamed
That should be enough?

There's scammers everywhere, men as well. Usually not so difficult to see through them. Usually bad English gives them away.

As for advice ... your profile text may not help. Stuff like "I don't believe it" and "prove me wrong" and "Ask me anything you want" are not what would attract a good woman.
It tells us that you are cynical, likely hurt, that you're not going to trust or believe us, we will have to prove that we're trustworthy.
No way in hell am I going there! I want a confident and positive man, not a whinging whining distrusting one.
See my point?

Most women won't "just ask you anything" either. That's what men do, women won't. If you can't be @r$ed to tell us about you, to convince us that you are what you say you are (fun, etc.), we're not interested. You got to show that in your profile text and picture.
If you fail to do that -and you do- you will only attract the women that are not a good match.

See your online profile as flogging a product, the product being you. Meaning YOU have to convince US to buy into it, not the other way around.
So pack up your (hurt) ego and try a different M.O.

Also ... "A couple of girls to join you in some fun" is not going to help.
Most women are looking for a relationship and love, not a sex date.
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I would push for twins...might as well go for the ultimate fantasy.

Nah that is sick

Really?
Oh dear!!!

Oh wait, I think I figured it out. He is starting a Bible study group

Aww bless him. Hope he finds a couple of suitable God-fearing women to achieve his goals with. Nothing like a bit of wholesome activity

HungryGary..you want 2 women..is one a snack?

Here's the bottom line answer:

People probably DO mean what they say on their profiles.

However that does NOT mean that what YOU think their profile says, is what THEY mean it to say.

You have the same problem I see a lot of people have with online venues: you want to treat dating sites like vending machines, and profiles like legal contracts.

None of it works that way. This is all very informal. People write in their profiles and messages, what they think they want or what they hope someone else will want in turn from them, and then they make contact and figure out what's REALLY going on.

why stop at 2? try to get a college volleyball team... if you're going to climb the mountain, it might as well be the tallest and hardest..

Considering my profile is kind of a joke.....I'm going to disagree with Igor.

Some of us have given up on attempting to meet anybody. Some of us are here for the forums and friends we've made while searching.

i think the profiles are just a way to open a dialog with someone, the profiles (to me) are actually meaningless other than that

mmmmmmm...some people who state they want a threesome

or a group activity or an intimate encounter


really are looking for that so to convince yourself otherwise


would not be wise