Topic: if someone takes too long for you
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Sat 11/10/07 07:39 PM
and you kinda move on but keep them in mind is that wrong to the person?

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Sat 11/10/07 07:40 PM
That might need some clarification

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Sat 11/10/07 07:40 PM
I would tell them I am moving on

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Sat 11/10/07 07:42 PM
Well say you like someone and they don't want to take the next step forward at all won't even call you. Then a new person comes along who you like equally and they're willing to do more stuff to get to know you and advance in a relationship. The reason I won't say anything is because I am still undecided as to what I want because neither of these girls are my girlfriend and I don't feel it's necessary right now to let the old girl know.

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Sat 11/10/07 07:44 PM
Personally, I don't think you have an obligation to either girl. You weren't/aren't in a relationship with either one. And if it's online, you're here to get to know people. If the first girl isn't willing to move forward, then you should do it on your own...away from her. Let her go and talk to the new girl. Just cuz you click with someone for a day or two doesn't mean you give up talking to everyone else.

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Sat 11/10/07 07:44 PM
Personally, I don't think you have an obligation to either girl. You weren't/aren't in a relationship with either one. And if it's online, you're here to get to know people. If the first girl isn't willing to move forward, then you should do it on your own...away from her. Let her go and talk to the new girl. Just cuz you click with someone for a day or two doesn't mean you give up talking to everyone else.

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Sat 11/10/07 07:44 PM
hmm..twice the advice....go Me!

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Sat 11/10/07 07:44 PM
Thanks, thats what i planned on doing.

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Sat 11/10/07 07:45 PM
I don't think you owe the first girl anything! Doesn't sound like you were even dating, just had a crush. Timing is one of the tricky things. Just keep on having fun. You can keep a little spark alive for her in case the timing is right later on. But, I bet the spark will fizzle when you meet someone who is interested in reciprocating!!! love

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Sat 11/10/07 07:47 PM
Yea.. she keeps telling me she wants to go out with me but i'd have to wait a while... Something tells me shes just either in a relationship waiting to break up or just a little weird. I'm about to talk to the other girl so I hope things go well

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Sat 11/10/07 08:06 PM
how long is long and what was the last thing discussed?

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Sat 11/10/07 08:07 PM
Just go with the one who is showing you more interest.

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Sat 11/10/07 09:10 PM
I think i like this new girl more. We have more interests and she doesn't make excuses to not talk to me. The other girl is a jerk to me sometimes and makes me question her feelings every time we talk.

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Sat 11/10/07 09:20 PM
Sup buddy!! Been in this situation b4. Just gotta go with what u believe will be more interesting. Seems like this new chick your talking to is working for you both, don't give it up man. Just like what us hawaiians say "If Eddie would go, go for broke!!" hehehe Good luck man!!