I fnd it really disturbing that we (single people) are giving relationship advice to other single people... Correct me if I'm wrong but .... if we were that great at relationships wouldn't we be in one already? I mean .... I'm sure other peoples life experience is helpful in some shape or form, let's just be careful with what we take to heart...

I disagree, I feel you should learn something new everyday, no matter how old or intelligent you are. Getting advice from a stranger or even a friend is good for you and gives you an open mind as to what you were thinking.

well actually most of us here

are the ones that

got burnt

not the ones that did the burning

cause if we were the burners we would be occupied

with someone else specially on a sat night

I got a little burn on my hand

I guess if we were all great at relationships we probably wouldn't be on here would we? I have found out one thing on here. You can still get your heart broken.

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I could be in a hundred, right now.

I could juggle three or four with little or NO effort as we speak.

I used to get hit on a few times a week untilk I decided to avoid eye contact and smiles for the most part. I tend to walk around acting distracted.

But, if you measure quickies and easy fixes as though that's a major accomplishment, then we are really different.

If you find it peculiar that many of us are particular, discriminating, selective, mature, and patient ... then I can understand your concern!!!!!

Though you have a good point, some of us have gained valuable knowledge from past mistakes. Sharing information/ideas with friends here is the same as sharing with friends in the non-cyber world. I prefer not to give advice, but rather share experiences and let others make their own choices.

Your'e absolutely right, we should learn something everyday, I'm just saying maybe we should be careful about what we are learning and from who we are learning.

well put, klc!!

No, if you learn something of value it doesnt matter where you learn it... But Cmon... We aren't exactly Dr. Phils here.

I'm not discounting anyones knowledge, I'm just saying we have proven that our methods don't work...

I have to agree with you. If I hadn't listened to advice I wouldn't be hurting right now. Maybe I shouldn't look any further than my own back yard. lol

DR PHIL??????

We would eat his white bread eatin' Volvo drivin' @$$ for lunch!!!!

A plethora of pipedreams!!!

Platitudes and hyperbolieeeeee!!!

DR PHIL???? he's a money whore!!!

and an attention seeker!!!

why is it assumed that if we are here we did something wrong ..just because we are not in relationships doesnt make it our fault maybe the person we were with just sucked beyond belief...

Wow I opened a real can of worms here... Lol. I really do wish you all the best of luck finding someone special and true, just be careful....

I think you are right tom. I just can't seem to find an honest person. They say there looking for an honest person but there not honest there selves. I guess we learn from our mistakes. Boy have I made a lot of them. lol But am still learning.

We are all still learning, practice makes perfect...:)

i cant help but be honest i really dont know any other way i say what i feel because thats who iam and ive paid the price for being truthful..the other side of the coin i guess...

i really dont think we ever achieve perfection...but the desire to remains...