Topic: Something that kinda bothers me...
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Sat 11/10/07 05:41 PM
It's disturbing,.... what da!

You don't have to be in a relationship to qualify to respond to relationship questions, observers probably makes more sense thn those that are going through it because they are not bias by what they are seeing.


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Sat 11/10/07 05:43 PM
I'd take advice from Mr.Bill (SNL) before Dr.Phillaugh I don't watch Oprah either. That crap will rot your mind!bigsmile

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Sat 11/10/07 05:45 PM
i agree to a certain extent ..but i would have to say experience is a helluva teacher there are somethings that through observation remain unknown..each case is different there are no two relationships 100% alike...glasses

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Sat 11/10/07 05:46 PM
Well fortunately we have the freedom of choice and I think I will take my chances and leave it to the professionals. :)

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Sat 11/10/07 05:46 PM
<<<<Not here to give or take advice. Just here for comic relief!:tongue:

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Sat 11/10/07 05:49 PM
the only thing about professional advice is you never get to see how well their relationship is going and if theyre divorced what do you take away from that...smokin ..i dont give advice per se ..not qualified nor do i think are a lot of professionals..i think you live and learn to the best of ones ability...glasses

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Sat 11/10/07 05:51 PM
That is not necessarily true, as when you meet someone and things do not work out, that does not necessarily make you bad. People can be bad together but good apart, if that makes any sense. I am not saying anyone is perfect and yes we all need to hear new info and others learning experiences to help but I do not blame either of us separately in my past breaks, I blame us both. Part of being a responsible adult is realizing we are responsible for ourselves and choices we make effects others sometimes negatively.flowerforyou

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Sat 11/10/07 05:52 PM
there are professionals for just about everythingbut lets face it...someone had to graduate at the back of the class...laugh

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Sat 11/10/07 05:56 PM
Lol. I think i might take advice from someone that has been married 50 years or so... that would probably be sound.

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Sat 11/10/07 05:56 PM
True... We are all single. But not for the same reasons. Some even because they choose to be. Single or not we all have different life experiences to share or opinions to give.

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Sat 11/10/07 05:58 PM
But just liek someone said before ... no relationship is like another one... so how does someone elses life experience apply? Guess I'm missing something...

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Sat 11/10/07 05:59 PM
Wow i cant type lol.

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Sat 11/10/07 06:00 PM
you can only do the best you can and when relationships go bad you still wonder if you did enough..and sometimes there are outside circumstances beyond your control that you just werent prepared for just remember in a relationship both parties have to work together to achieve a common goal..luv the one your with...smokin

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Sat 11/10/07 06:05 PM
communication in a relationship is key without it were left wondering...smokin

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Sat 11/10/07 10:49 PM
No one is forced to accept other people's views, people are just sharing their views. What I find that is neat, we are richer with the many feedbacks from a diversed community.

Commonsense - I wished more people would use that to save them from much heartaches

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Mon 11/12/07 01:52 PM
Common sense is always good lol.

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Mon 11/12/07 01:56 PM
I've done everything wrong so am I qualified to tell you the right thing to do? lol

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Mon 11/12/07 02:16 PM
adj, pass the aloe. laugh laugh

i dont think i suck at relationships, i just havent found the right person.

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Mon 11/12/07 02:16 PM
true but ok if u dont learn that way how ealse would u learn u have to see what others have to say and just get the feedback its always great to see what others have to say drinker just puting my 2 cents in here :)

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Mon 11/12/07 02:29 PM
I'm just here for the beer! Buuuuuuuuurrrrrppp! Way good one. Sowee. Excuse me.