It seems like no matter what I do I can't find someone who likes me for me instead of judging me by my looks. But am I really ugly enough for everyone to avoid my profile?
Just wondering.
Be honest.

you are not ugly and you are young... have fun and enjoy life before you decide to settle down with just one. you will know when the right one comes along. You so much to do and see before you get older..... do it while you can

ur not ugly at all, and don't let people get you down.

Gee thanks guys. I think I'll erase my account. I'm having no luck on this site.

well you have barely posted .... and have been here less than a week what do you expect..... as far as ugly I haven been winning any beauty contests myself.... but here people get to know you for your personality... hence hte reason for posting.. it lets them get a feel for ya

beauty is the eye of the beholder, never judge a person for who there not

Your not ugly. To young for me.

"I would really like to settle down in the next 5 years."

When I see things like that on a profile, for me it's like a no-no.
I'm 18, I don't want to committed to one person within 5 years of knowing them.. Definitely too young for that, I have a lot to do with my life still.

So, if you're going for an older girl, maybe that'd be better,
but most people around our age, I fine - Just want to have fun for a few more years, before they think about settling down, especially with someone new that they had just met.

It'd be different if you knew the people time before you got serious.

Again, that's only my opinion though.

If you erase your account, what will change? What I mean is that instead of taking off, continue to post, continue to get to know people. New people join this site all the time. You never know when you might find her. But in the meantime, have fun and enjoy making friends. Good luck!

Drew

hey looking, give it a chance. you only been on the site for less than a week. Post in the forums, start a few threads, let ppl get to know you before you attack yourself. Scope out other ppl, send a few emails saying "Hi" Don't worry about not getting responses. Most ppl on here don't give a rat's *** what we look like, thank goodness.

Oi, how about you try and change your negative attitude about yourself...reading this thread is depressing in itself. There is nothing wrong with you ...maybe she is not on this site. She could be nextdoor or down the road walking her dog.

Try and expand from the one focus that is eating at you to improve your chances

your still young, you have alot going for you. geeze when i was your age i was taking care my new born daughter, she 24yrs old now

hey just think of it this way sweetie ya never know til ya tried..and you are definitly not ugly!

Dude. First of all, never....and I repeat....NEVER......think that you don't have something that a woman is going to find attractive. Look, I don't consider myself a "sexy muther****er", but I do know that what I have is an attitude that is my own. I am a dork, have no problems being that, I say off the wall **** all the time, have a warped sense of humer (ladies this is all in my profile.. ). Basically, I know who I am and am comfortable with it.

I'm sure it can get frustrating and all. You come here hoping that something will happen on here in an instant. But, it doesn't. I can say this. I have met women on here (younger and older than me, and around my age) and I have yet to meet one that has not been cool to talk to. I haven't found that "connection" yet with a woman, though it could change, but I also came on here with the thought that this would take time. For some, maybe it is instant. I guess it just varies.

But, the reason I say don't question you is because you will get down on yourself, and that's not good. Come on the boards, have some laughs with the folks here, be silly....but be you. And hey, maybe you find a girl you like, shoot her an email, start talking, and "WHAM!". Connection. Have confidence in you man, and have patience on here.

Not at all, and don't take it personal, many wait for long periods to be contacted, but by posting, to others, and shared interests or your's more, will, more people want to get to know what your about, this takes time, I've have been here for a while now, and still, just on the brim, of peoples minds.

Find something in the Threads that peek your interests, then join in, at least there, your in your own comfort zone, and can get involved, with other members of this site...then, pooooofff, one day, someone will come along, until then, enjoy, what this site has to offer, and by no means, look at yourself as unworthy, to young to be thinking that, so get out here and have some fun....

Dude.

Okay first no your not ugly... Second, you can build some really cool skills here since you're young. See what the gals write, what they like, invest yourself in reading all sections including poetry, world events.

Become as well rounded in life as possible.

Okay.... here's a couple of important points. I have yet to meet a gal who doesn't like to see a guy be physically fit and it makes you feel good yourself. Number 2, a make over can be a very cool thing to take a look at... I'm not sayin' jump into it but I had a gal take me to a store and a hair stylist and bam...... I had compliments, looks, and propositions that I didn't have before. Changed my life 22 years ago.

I'm an average looking guy will never have all the gals... but I'm okay with that cause I have taken my time to find some woman I find extremely attractive women who enjoyed "My Look" and style.

Trust me at the age of 42 I've suprised my freinds who asked how I got the gal.... I simply told them what I say to you above. I'm not full of myself.... just confident with my experience. Hang in here and enjoy for a while before giving up.... which I do agree don't spend all your time here. Get out there. I WILL NOT FIND A WOMAN HERE MYSELF.... I know this.

Best of luck,

J

Beauty is always in...the eye of the BEHOLDER!!!

Keep smoking and you will be.

Now a man calling himself a "dork" that's cute, why, its funny and he knows its funny. To me that is positive even though the word dork don't look or sound positive. Underneath what he just said, you can see alot about him that makes him interesting and worth getting to know.

If you say, I am ugly....you don't have to read any more, its not fun and if you feel that way, you missed out experiencing some good stuff.

Sin39 - couldn't agree more.


Personally I would say "damm cute"

Hope you agree with some of the good advice offered from others here.

Good luck with your studies.