Now if we could just do something about the.. annoying and Visually distracting Plumber's crack..lol

You mean Arse Cleavage right?

Cause cleavage is attractive and the more you show the better...

..lol...yup.

It's just the way it is - looks and materialism seem to matter too much.

I must admit I'm more likely to be put off by a profile of guys in suits on every photo who look business like cos I like a tshirt and jeans sort of guy. Money earning potential is of no interest to me but lets face it if you meet someone who lives a distance away they have to be able to afford to meet up at some point.

If her occupation is as a stripper, then I won't judge. I'll be expecting free lap dances and not having to shower her with ones.

ahhh I have a different perspective on this one

one grandpa only completed 8th grade and went to work on farm

then later on started his own trucking business

other grandpa was the mail man

My grandparents, most of my aunts and uncles and cousins

come from small town roots

even though I have one degree and going for another

it is with the intention of moving back to a small town

to work in the school system


man works hard for his money? good and honest work? he is ok in my book

hell I've David Lotz woman who I told I didn't have a dime in my pocket, and wasn't trying to find a job just to see the reaction, some actually called my bluff and wanted to still hang out with me lol

dam, I'm going to throw this stupid cell phone in the microwave and nuke it

Well, I've become wary of making too broad a pronouncement about pretty much anything by this point in my life, but I sympathize generally with the op.

There ARE some people who I would probably hit the dump switch on, because of what they do for a living. Professional liars, for example. Professional thieves.

I have a bit of a different perspective on this..

If the job is legal and ethical
For the most part I am going to be okay with it.
Here is the caveat to this...I am NOT okay with the new Pot farms going up. It is against what I do for a living, and personally I am against the big business of this industry. Not the partaking the huge acreage going into it.


I do believe a person has a right to do what they want career wise. Some due to my "career" choice aren't acceptable for me to date.


A man working with his hands getting sweaty and dirty yeah that is sexy...
An office worker that has worked hard all day stuck in a room and hasn't gone postal yeah that is sexy...

hi my friend you My love you too

i really don't care what type of job he has

Yes job is job but female usually seek a potential partner.
By law of nature female seek for strong manin every aspect including financials.

You can say it's superficial to judge by profession, but there's another side to it ...
Often you find ppl with lower education in less well regarded jobs. And although lower education doesn't necessarily mean lower intelligence and understanding of life, the universe and everything, often it does.
That doesn't make these ppl any less, but I for instance need someone who can tickle my brain. Someone I can have insightful, intelligent conversations with, someone on the same level as me. Someone who has an understanding and interest in the deeper things in life. And typically you will not find that in certain professions.
I think this is the case cos people with 'more mental capacity' also need more of a challenge and depth in a job. Something that matches their level, so the job isn't boring but nurturing them, doing them good. Working below your level usually doesn't do that for you.

Like I said, not always the case, but often it is. So for me it's nothing much to do with status, but more with wanting a partner who's on the same level of intelligence, development, wisdom etc.
And yes, I also avoid certain professions ... for reasons mentioned.

I also don't mean any judgement, there is none. Everyone is the way they are, and facts are simply facts.

Oh, and I also think it's pretty narrow minded to judge this happening, cos I seriously doubt a truck-driver who's only worry in the world is to drive his rig, grab a beer, a burger & fries, and shag the missus when he gets home, would be looking for a highly educated office manager as a partner.

Do you hear the officer manager whinge about truckies avoiding her?
It works both ways ya know. Because both ends of the stick know/feel intuitively what will make them happy and what will not.
And that's GOOD!

people spend a large portion of their life at a job, it becomes part of their mindset and I dont agree that people should be judged by their work, I do understand how compatibility may be assessed by ones choice of work

for instance, I dont think I would be compatible with the life of a pastor, or policeman or military man,,,,,its a mindset and a lifestyle as well as a job